BalDRO: A Distributionally Robust Optimization based Framework for Large Language Model Unlearning

The rapid development of large language models (LLMs) has raised concerns on the use of inappropriate data for training, which has led to a growing interest in LLM unlearning. Many existing LLM unlearning approaches rely on optimizing prediction loss(es), such as maximizing the loss on the forget set, but often face critical issues like over-forgetting and poor model utility. To address them, this paper novelly frames the optimization objective for LLM unlearning as one of zeroing out data attribution instead. In particular, we propose the first LLM unlearning framework based on data attribution rewards called DareU that performs reinforcement learning to update the LLM by reducing the attribution score of its generated responses (i.e., de-attributing) to the forget data owners. Empirical evaluation using an LLM classifier as an efficient approximation of attribution shows that DareU outperforms existing baselines by achieving effective unlearning while balancing forget quality and model utility well.

Machine unlearning for large language models (LLMs) aims to selectively remove memorized content such as private data, copyrighted text, or hazardous knowledge, without costly full retraining. Most existing methods require a retain set of curated examples to prevent catastrophic degradation of general model utility, creating an extra data dependency that complicates deployment. We propose SHRED (Self-distillation via High-surprisal-only Retain-set-free Entropy Demotion), a retain-set-free unlearning method built on a key insight: not all tokens within a forget set instance carry memorized information equally. High-information tokens concentrate the model's memorized knowledge, while low-information tokens reflect general language competence. SHRED operates in two stages. (1) Selection: We perform a forward pass on a forget set instance, collect per-token autoregressive probabilities, and select the bottom (lowest probability, highest Shannon information) as forget positions; the remaining positions are retained as benign anchors. (2) Training: We construct modified KL targets that demote the memorized token's logit at forget positions while preserving the original distribution at benign positions. The model is then trained via a single top KL self-distillation objective that simultaneously drives forgetting and utility preservation. We evaluate SHRED across four standard unlearning benchmarks and demonstrate that it establishes a new Pareto-optimal trade-off between forget efficacy and model utility, outperforming retain-set-dependent methods. Our analysis shows that SHRED is robust against relearning attacks and membership-inference attacks, and it maintains stable utility even after many sequential unlearning runs.

Large Language Models (LLMs) unlearning is crucial for removing hazardous or privacy-leaking information from the model. Practical LLM unlearning demands satisfying multiple challenging objectives simultaneously: removing undesirable knowledge, preserving general utility, avoiding over-refusal of neighboring concepts, and, crucially, ensuring robustness against adversarial probing attacks. However, existing unlearning methods primarily focus on a limited subset of these goals, typically unlearning efficacy and utility preservation while overlooking robustness and boundary behaviors. Naively extending these methods to multi-objective settings may lead to unlearning task interference. We propose a novel multi-objective unlearning framework that harmonizes multiple unlearning objectives through a data and optimization co-design: We standardize training corpora into a unified data representation to reduce the domain gap, and then introduce a bidirectional distillation method that simultaneously elicits desired behavior from a context-instructed teacher while suppressing undesirable behavior in the student model. Theoretical and empirical analyses show that our method aligns domain distributions and converts seemingly irrelevant unlearning tasks into cooperative optimization. Evaluation demonstrates state-of-the-art performance, which enables balanced and reliable unlearning across diverse, challenging requirements.