Swap-guided Preference Learning for Personalized Reinforcement Learning from Human Feedback

Federated Learning (FL) offers a privacy-preserving pathway for aligning Large Language Models (LLMs); however, existing frameworks typically enforce a monolithic reward model, inevitably averaging out inherently conflicting user preferences (e.g., helpfulness vs. harmlessness). While Variational Preference Learning (VPL) offers a pathway to personalization, adapting it to decentralized settings presents a fundamental challenge: posterior collapse driven by severe local data scarcity and heterogeneity. In this paper, we propose Federated Variational Preference Alignment with Gumbel-Softmax Prior (FedVPA-GP), a framework designed to disentangle diverse preferences without compromising privacy. To stabilize variational inference, we introduce a Federated Mixture Prior that enables clients to leverage the aggregate population distribution as a dynamic prior. Furthermore, we incorporate an Orthogonal Loss that explicitly enforces the separation of preference prototypes in the latent space. Experiments on the HH-RLHF dataset demonstrate that FedVPA-GP significantly outperforms monolithic baselines, successfully disentangling conflicting user intents and enabling dynamic preference switching.

Reinforcement learning with verifiable rewards (RLVR) has enabled progress on reasoning-intensive tasks by relying on task-specific verifiers that provide automated correctness signals. However, many realistic language tasks are difficult to equip with reliable verifiers, motivating a growing reliance on reinforcement learning from human feedback (RLHF). In this setting, we argue that a closer examination of how human feedback should be interpreted is essential. We introduce Regret-based Preference Optimization $(\textbf{RePO})$, which reframes RLHF through $\textit{regret minimization}$ rather than reward maximization. Human preferences are often shaped by $\textit{prospective}$ anticipation of outcomes and $\textit{counterfactual}$ comparisons to alternative behaviors, rather than by immediate, outcome-independent utility. $\textbf{RePO}$ captures this structure by modeling preferences as behavior-conditioned assessments of relative suboptimality. Experiments on mathematical reasoning benchmarks and human preference datasets demonstrate consistent performance gains, indicating that $\textbf{RePO}$ is an effective and human-aligned approach for training large language models.

Personalized reward models require user-specific preference comparisons, but collecting such feedback is costly and provides only limited supervision for each user. At the same time, large pools of responses can be generated without user identities or preference labels, yet existing personalized reward models leave this data unused. Directly learning from these responses is difficult because pairwise objectives constrain relative scores within a prompt, whereas pseudo-labeling individual responses requires scores that are comparable across prompts for the same user. We propose PerSPL (Personalized Semi-supervised Preference Learning), a backbone-agnostic framework that uses pair-mean score centering to stabilize this cross-prompt score coordinate and iteratively turns unlabeled responses into user-specific training signals. Against seven representative baselines across four benchmarks---PersonalLLM, HelpSteer2, Reddit TLDR, and Chatbot Arena---PerSPL achieves the highest reported mean accuracy among the evaluated methods for both seen and unseen users. The two latter benchmarks provide real-user preference comparisons in summarization and open-domain chatbot interaction, respectively. These results indicate that unlabeled responses can provide additional supervision for personalized reward modeling when per-user preference labels are scarce.