Relationship-Aware Safety Unlearning for Multimodal LLMs

Machine unlearning offers a promising approach to remove unsafe content from Multimodal Large Language Models (MLLMs), yet ensuring the precision of unlearning remains a persistent challenge. One reason is that current MLLM unlearning evaluation paradigms suffer from a critical blind spot: they assess model utility through benchmarks whose representations are distant from the forget set, failing to capture knowledge holes---severe degradation on benign adjacent inputs. To probe knowledge holes in unlearned MLLMs, we construct a benchmark that captures unintended degradation on benign inputs sharing generic patterns with the forget set, and confirm through controlled experiments that they are a systematic consequence of commonly used approaches. Furthermore, to bridge this gap, we propose Selective Protection with Anchored Regularization, which protects generic patterns via anchored activation filtering while reinforcing them through entity-abstracted enhancement. Our experiments on SafeEraser demonstrate that SPAR recovers over 98% of vanilla response quality compared to below 50% for standard baselines---while achieving 0.00% attack success rate and competitive model utility. These results underscore the necessity of more fine-grained evaluation for trustworthy MLLM unlearning.

Multimodal large language models (MLLMs) can act unsafely when individually benign images and texts are interpreted jointly. Beyond implicit reasoning risk, where reasoning drifts toward harm, we identify intent-level risk, where cross-modal ambiguity silently commits the model to a hazardous premise that path-level optimization alone cannot correct. We propose SAFE-PRO, which uses a Risk-Conditioned Uncertainty (RCU) signal, combining predictive entropy with a learned cross-modal risk score, to decide when to ask safety-grounded clarifying questions and where to apply path optimization, under a reward that prioritizes safety and penalizes over-refusal. We also build SSUI-Dialog, a multimodal multi-turn dataset with dual-intent supervision, and theoretically analyze gradient variance and unsafe-completion risk under RCU. Across seven benchmarks and two base MLLMs, SAFE-PRO consistently improves safety over SRPO, roughly halves its over-refusal, and surpasses GPT-4o and Claude-3.5-Sonnet in average single-turn safety.

Large language models (LLMs) learn undesirable properties during pretraining, including dangerous knowledge and toxic text generation. Just as post-training uses different objectives to shape different behaviors, we argue that unlearning methods should be designed for the language function at issue. To study this, we consider two mechanistically distinct unlearning goals, dangerous-knowledge unlearning and toxicity unlearning. For dangerous knowledge, we introduce a cosine-based, meta-learned variant of RMU. For toxicity, we propose a multi-layer objective based on layer-specific probe directions. Across four open-source 7-8B models, our methods achieve strong results, based on distinct training objectives for the two types of unlearning. Overall, our results suggest that unlearning should be studied as a family of problems, analogous to the multiple types of LLM post-training.