Exclusive Unlearning

Mitigating sensitive and harmful outputs is fundamental to ensuring safe deployment of LLMs. Existing approaches typically follow two paradigms: Knowledge Deletion (KD), which erases undesirable information during training, and Distinguishable Refusal (DR), which steers models away from using sensitive knowledge during inference. Despite rapid progress, KD-based unlearning struggles with biased deletion due to suppressing specific token sequences as a substitute for complete knowledge removal, whereas DR-based unlearning risks the re-emergence of harmful knowledge because the underlying knowledge remains intact. To address these issues, we propose Distinguishable Deletion ($\mathrm{D^2}$), a paradigm that restricts the response distribution in the latent representation rather than specific tokens to erase undesirable knowledge, while distinguishing it from retained knowledge, enabling a refusal mechanism to handle unlearned inputs safely and coherently. To implement $\mathrm{D^2}$, we introduce an energy index that quantifies the presence of knowledge and the separation between unlearned and retained content. Mathematical and empirical analyses show that energy is both accurate and efficient, enabling Energy-based Unlearning Alignment (EUA) to enforce energy-boundary unlearning during training and apply an energy-based refusal mechanism at inference. Extensive experiments demonstrate that EUA significantly outperforms previous methods, indicating the superiority of $\mathrm{D^2}$. Our code is available at https://github.com/Puning97/EUA-for-LLM-Unlearning.

Large language models (LLMs) learn undesirable properties during pretraining, including dangerous knowledge and toxic text generation. Just as post-training uses different objectives to shape different behaviors, we argue that unlearning methods should be designed for the language function at issue. To study this, we consider two mechanistically distinct unlearning goals, dangerous-knowledge unlearning and toxicity unlearning. For dangerous knowledge, we introduce a cosine-based, meta-learned variant of RMU. For toxicity, we propose a multi-layer objective based on layer-specific probe directions. Across four open-source 7-8B models, our methods achieve strong results, based on distinct training objectives for the two types of unlearning. Overall, our results suggest that unlearning should be studied as a family of problems, analogous to the multiple types of LLM post-training.

Machine unlearning offers a promising approach to remove unsafe content from Multimodal Large Language Models (MLLMs), yet ensuring the precision of unlearning remains a persistent challenge. One reason is that current MLLM unlearning evaluation paradigms suffer from a critical blind spot: they assess model utility through benchmarks whose representations are distant from the forget set, failing to capture knowledge holes---severe degradation on benign adjacent inputs. To probe knowledge holes in unlearned MLLMs, we construct a benchmark that captures unintended degradation on benign inputs sharing generic patterns with the forget set, and confirm through controlled experiments that they are a systematic consequence of commonly used approaches. Furthermore, to bridge this gap, we propose Selective Protection with Anchored Regularization, which protects generic patterns via anchored activation filtering while reinforcing them through entity-abstracted enhancement. Our experiments on SafeEraser demonstrate that SPAR recovers over 98% of vanilla response quality compared to below 50% for standard baselines---while achieving 0.00% attack success rate and competitive model utility. These results underscore the necessity of more fine-grained evaluation for trustworthy MLLM unlearning.