Graph unlearning remains a critical technique for supporting privacy-preserving and sustainable multimodal graph learning. However, we observe that existing unlearning strategies tend to apply uniform parameter selection and editing across all graph neural network (GNN) layers, which is especially harmful for multimodal graphs where high-dimensional input projections encode dominant cross-modal knowledge. As a result, over-editing these sensitive layers often leads to catastrophic utility degradation after forgetting, undermining both stable learning and effective privacy protection. To address this gap, we propose FDQ, a Feature-Dimension Aware Quantile framework for multimodal graph unlearning. FDQ adaptively identifies high-dimensional input projection layers and applies more conservative, FDQ-guided quantile thresholds when constructing suppression sets, while keeping the underlying importance estimation mechanism unchanged. FDQ is seamlessly integrated with diagonal sensitivity-based parameter importance analysis to enable efficient node and edge unlearning under general forget requests. Through extensive experiments on Ele-Fashion and Goodreads-NC, we demonstrate that FDQ consistently achieves strong utility preservation while maintaining effective forgetting against membership inference attacks. Overall, FDQ offers a principled and robust solution for privacy-aware unlearning in high-dimensional multimodal graph systems.
Multimodal federated graph learning enables clients to collaboratively train graph models over structural, textual, and visual signals without sharing private local data. However, the presence of heterogeneous multimodal content also makes unlearning requests more frequent and fine-grained: users may delete accounts or interactions, remove a particular image or text while retaining the associated entity, or revoke the learned correspondence between retained modalities or graph attributes. Existing federated graph unlearning mainly handles entity/relation or client removal and cannot directly satisfy these multimodal requests. They introduce three challenges: removing only the requested information without damaging retained content, preventing the target from being recovered through remaining modalities or graph neighborhoods, and stopping related traces on other clients from re-entering the global model after aggregation. To address them, we propose \textsc{\textbf{MMFGU}}, a multimodal federated graph unlearning framework built around target-specific representation decoupling. \textsc{MMFGU} maps heterogeneous requests into unified target carriers, decouples requested representations while anchoring retained semantics, exposes and repairs propagated residuals with lightweight probes, and selectively purges affected clients through compact prototype and response signals. Experiments show that \textsc{MMFGU} effectively removes requested information, preserves retained graph utility, and achieves a 41.5× speedup over full retraining.
Graph unlearning removes the influence of designated training data from a trained graph model without retraining from scratch. However, existing methods suffer a sharp drop in model utility under large deletion ratios (mass deletion), a phenomenon we refer to as catastrophic unlearning. We find that a key cause is the uniform treatment of all deleted samples, which is particularly damaging in graph learning: structural dependencies cause different nodes to play vastly different roles in the learned model, yet existing methods apply the same forgetting operation to the entire forget set. Based on this insight, we propose CUNO, a curriculum-based graph unlearning framework that removes the forget set progressively, ordering samples by their estimated unlearning difficulty across multiple stages. CUNO further employs a distribution-level negative preference optimization (NPO) objective at each curriculum stage that steers the model away from its original behavior on the current forget subset while preserving retained performance. Our theoretical analysis shows that the curriculum design is most beneficial when the forget set spans a wide range of unlearning difficulty, a condition naturally satisfied under mass deletion. Comprehensive experiments confirm that CUNO consistently mitigates catastrophic unlearning: at 20% deletion, it retains 74% of the original utility compared to 26-53% for existing methods, and maintains more than half the original utility even at 50% deletion. Our code is publicly available at https://anonymous.4open.science/r/cuno-D4FF.
Graph federated learning (GFL) facilitates decentralized training on distributed graph data while keeping sensitive user information local, aligning with policies such as GDPR and CCPA that grant users the right to freely join or withdraw from learning systems. However, even decentralized, user information can persist after quitting, potentially propagating to central servers and then redistributing to malicious clients. This privacy leakage during user withdrawal, despite its importance, has received seldom attention in GFL. To fill the gap, we explore the potential of machine unlearning (MU) to thoroughly remove user information. However, classical MU methods are known to degrade overall performance, a problem that is exacerbated in GFL due to local message passing and global model collaboration. To this end, we make two adjustments to mitigate this challenge for GFL. First, we ensure unlearning updates that minimally affect overall performance, steering them in directions orthogonal to the gradients from learning other data. Second, we introduce virtual clients, maintained by the central server, to preserve graph topology and global embeddings without recovering information of removed entities. We conduct comprehensive experiments under a representative user-withdrawal scenario and propose a novel membership inference framework to rigorously evaluate and validate the reliability of our privacy preservation. The experimental results demonstrate the effectiveness of our approach, which also surpasses the performance of seven state-of-the-art baseline methods.