Gradient Transformer: Learning to Generate Updates for LLMs

Large language models (LLMs) are commonly adapted to downstream tasks through fine-tuning, but fine-tuning data often contains sensitive information that may be leaked by the resulting model. Differential privacy (DP) offers formal protection against such leakage, yet DP fine-tuning of LLMs still suffers from substantial utility degradation due to gradient clipping and noise injection. Existing work improves this trade-off by combining DP with parameter-efficient fine-tuning methods such as LoRA, which constrain the form of updates. In this work, we study a complementary direction: selective fine-tuning, which constrains where updates are applied. We propose DP-SelFT, a framework for differentially private selective fine-tuning of LLMs. DP-SelFT addresses three DP-specific challenges in parameter selection: avoiding repeated privacy cost, improving stability under noisy estimates, and selecting parameters that remain useful under clipped and noisy updates. It first constructs a lightweight DP synthetic dataset and performs selection only on this synthetic data, so the selection stage incurs no additional privacy cost. It then conducts layer-level selection by temporarily training candidate layer subsets on a synthetic training split and evaluating them on a synthetic validation split. Crucially, this temporary training is performed under a perturbation regime matched to downstream DP fine-tuning, with worst-case perturbations of the same scale as DP noise. This favors layer subsets that are not only learnable but also robust to noisy private updates. Experiments on benchmark tasks show that DP-SelFT consistently improves the privacy--utility trade-off over existing DP fine-tuning baselines under the same privacy guarantees.

Large language models (LLMs) are trained on vast datasets that may contain sensitive information. Differential privacy (DP), the de facto standard for formal privacy guarantees, provides a principled framework for training LLMs with provable privacy protection. However, state-of-the-art DP training implementations rely on fast gradient clipping techniques with memory overhead $O(B \min\{T^2, d^2\})$, where $B$ is the batch size, $T$ is the sequence length, and $d$ is the model width. This becomes prohibitive as both model size and context length grow. We propose DP-SGD-RC, a novel variant of DP-SGD with randomized clipping that reduces memory and compute complexity. DP-SGD-RC leverages stochastic trace estimation methods, specifically Hutchinson's estimator[Hutchinson, 1989] and its improved variant, Hutch++[Meyer et al., 2021], to reduce the memory footprint of per-sample gradient norm estimation. We provide a tight privacy analysis showing that DP-SGD-RC achieves noise multipliers competitive with deterministic clipping. Experiments fine-tuning Llama~3.2-1B on long-context benchmarks spanning classification, question answering, and summarization tasks demonstrate that DP-SGD-RC matches baseline utility while significantly reducing memory and compute requirements.

Fine-tuning large language models (LLMs) on domain-specific data is essential for downstream adaptation. In many deployments, a participant cannot hold the complete model locally. This happens because the model owner keeps the full model proprietary, or because the participant lacks sufficient compute resources. Split Learning (SL) addresses this by partitioning the model between the participant and a server so that only a small portion runs locally. When the underlying data is additionally distributed across multiple institutions with privacy requirements, Federated Learning (FL) further enables collaborative training across participants by sharing only model updates instead of raw data. In this combined setting, each client transmits intermediate activations to the server, and for LLM fine-tuning, this exchange poses an inherent privacy paradox. The autoregressive nature of LLMs causes the transmitted activations to leak the input, and existing perturbation-based defenses are fundamentally ineffective in this setting. We address this leakage through a learned obfuscate-and-recover scheme that protects participants' private datasets while still allowing an independently deployable model to be trained on the server side. Experiments demonstrate that our approach achieves strong privacy protection with modest utility loss and system overhead, making split-based federated LLM fine-tuning practically viable.