ESC-Skills: Discovering and Self-Evolving Skills for Emotional Support Conversations

Emotional Support Conversation (ESC) aims to assist individuals experiencing distress by generating empathetic and supportive dialogue. While prior work typically assumes that each supporter turn corresponds to a single strategy, real-world supportive communication often involves multiple strategies within a single utterance. In this paper, we revisit the ESC task by formulating it as multi-strategy utterance generation, where each utterance may contain one or more strategy-response pairs. We propose two generation methods: All-in-One, which predicts all strategy-response pairs in a single decoding step, and One-by-One, which iteratively generates strategy-response pairs until completion. Both methods are further enhanced with cognitive reasoning guided by reinforcement learning to improve strategy selection and response composition. We evaluate our models on the ESConv dataset under both utterance-level and dialogue-level settings. Experimental results show that our methods effectively model multi-strategy utterances and lead to improved supportive quality and dialogue success. To our knowledge, this work provides the first systematic empirical evidence that allowing multiple support strategies within a single utterance is both feasible and beneficial for emotional support conversations. All code and data will be publicly available at https://github.com/aliyun/qwen-dianjin.

Emotional Support (ES) systems have long optimized a single objective: alleviating the user's emotional distress in the moment. We argue that a complementary need, helping users see themselves more clearly, defines a distinct paradigm we call Personality Support (PS). PS is not counseling or clinical intervention: it targets cognitive clarity and self-articulation, not symptom relief or diagnosis. We instantiate this paradigm in three layers. First, we present DSD, a Chinese self-discovery PS Dataset of 8,590 samples collected through real longitudinal interaction across five minimal units, Coach, Warm, Tsukkomi, Real, and Gonzo. Second, we build DeepSupport, a multi-persona PS system trained with OrthoTune, a PS-tailored framework with style-specific adapters and a style-consistency regularizer. Third, we unify the five DeepSupport personas into Ekova, a persistent personality-support agent with a unified cross-session memory layer, supporting both adaptive routing and user-customized persona selection. Experiments show that OrthoTune-trained models outperform all baselines with an average relative gain of 16.3% across all metrics over the strongest prompt-based baseline. Code is available at https://github.com/Yukyin/Ekova.

Emotional Support Dialogue Systems (ESDSes) are increasingly evaluated and trained with LLM-simulated seekers. However, such simulated seekers often behave as cooperative, average-case users who disclose clearly, respond constructively, and accept support within a few turns. This can lead to overly optimistic evaluation and obscure whether ESDSes can handle difficult help-seeking interactions. In this work, we study ESDS evaluation under worst-case interactions, where seekers are hard to help due to low engagement, resistance, limited self-disclosure, emotional volatility, or rigid negative interpretations. We first conduct an expert simulation study with eight experienced counselling professionals, who simulate difficult seekers, interact with existing Chinese ESDSes, provide scale ratings, and participate in semi-structured interviews. Based on this study, we derive worst-case seeker behaviours and identify key limitations of current systems. We then propose a worst-case evaluation framework consisting of an LLM-based worst-case seeker simulator and four worst-case-oriented metrics: Deep Emotional Understanding, Guided Exploration, Balanced Emotional Support, and Authentic and Grounded Support. Evaluating 17 systems, we find that nearly all models suffer substantial performance drops under worst-case interactions. Large general-purpose LLMs are generally more robust than specialised ESDSes, but even the strongest models struggle to sustain engagement and improve seekers' emotional states. Finally, we show that worst-case simulation can also generate useful training data, improving the robustness of smaller models.