SHARD: Safe and Helpful Alignment via Self-Reframing Distillation

Safe completion requires models to provide useful assistance without enabling harm, but this behavior is difficult to evaluate with isolated prompts. We introduce OpenSafeIntent, a benchmark of controlled prompt-sets that vary intent while holding the underlying task fixed. Each datapoint contains benign, dual-use, and malicious variants of the same task. This design lets us evaluate whether models calibrate assistance across intent shifts, rather than merely appearing safe on average. Across a broad model suite, we find that prompt-level safety hides important failures: models often fail to remain safe across matched intent variants, dual-use behavior is brittle under paraphrase, high-level answers on risky topics are not reliably safe, and responses that reframe ambiguous requests into safer tasks are substantially less likely to cross the safety boundary. Our results suggest that safe completion should be evaluated as intent-calibrated behavior over controlled task variants, not as a single safety-helpfulness tradeoff over independent prompts.

Large language models (LLMs) tuned for safety often avoid acknowledging demographic differences, even when such acknowledgment is factually correct (e.g., ancestry-based disease incidence) or contextually justified (e.g., religious hiring preferences). This identity-blindness yields incorrect responses, unnecessary refusals, or generic "equal-treatment" defaults. We study this via difference-awareness classification: given a question involving demographic groups, the task is not to answer directly, but to classify whether a correct answer requires recognizing group differences (yes) or whether groups should be treated identically (no). Crucially, fine-tuning for accuracy triggers harm drift: model-generated explanations become increasingly harmful as decision accuracy improves, whether by elaborating harmful content, introducing problematic assumptions, or failing to flag harms the baseline identified. To mitigate this, we introduce DART (Distill--Audit--Repair Training), which distills label-conditioned reasoning from a teacher, audits outputs for harm drift cases relative to baseline, and repairs problematic cases via severity-weighted fine-tuning. On eight benchmarks, DART improves Llama-3-8B-Instruct accuracy from 39.0% to 68.8%, with largest gains on equal-treatment prompts (11.3% -> 72.6%), while reducing harm drift cases by 72.6%. It also transfers to 280 open-ended real-world queries across medical, legal, policy, and educational domains, improving difference-appropriate responses from 39.8% to 77.5% while reducing refusals from 34.3% to 3.0%. Our results demonstrate that accuracy and safety need not conflict when explicit detection and repair mechanisms are in place.

Aligned large language models (LLMs) are expected to exhibit safety behavior based on the content of the user request: they should refuse unsafe requests and comply with safe ones. However, we show that the same request can elicit substantially different safety decisions under different traits assigned in the system prompt, a failure mode we call trait-induced safety variation. To measure this failure, we introduce refusal-based metrics: Trait-Induced Deviation measures dataset-level deviation from the no-trait baseline, while Trait-Induced Flip Rate measures whether the same request receives different safety decisions across traits. We then provide a representation-level analysis of the mechanism behind trait-induced safety shifts and find that traits perturb the model's safety representations within a low-dimensional subspace. To achieve trait-invariant safety, where safety behavior remains stable across traits, we introduce Trait-Invariant Safety Tuning (TIST), a simple yet effective self-distillation framework that aligns an LLM's trait-conditioned behavior with its no-trait behavior. Guided by our analysis, we further propose Trait-Subspace Neutralization (TraSN), an instantiation of TIST, which enforces invariance only within the identified trait subspace. Experiments show that TraSN improves trait-invariant safety and strengthens harmful-request safety while preserving general capability. Our results highlight traits as an important factor in LLM safety and robust model behavior.