Reading a social situation often depends on behavior, not words alone. We introduce FriendBench, a benchmark for inferring whether two people are already familiar or are meeting as strangers, from a 20-second clip of a dyadic ice-breaker conversation. Every pair answers the same type of prompt, so only the manner of interaction can reveal the answer. Across text, audio, and video, we compare 26 models from seven companies against matched human panels over 96 balanced dyads. The best model and the human crowd are statistically indistinguishable on accuracy in every modality, but reach it differently: humans stay balanced across the two answers, while the strongest models favor ``stranger.'' This is a difference in effective prior, not in discrimination. Richer channels help both unequally, and only humans gain from visible behavior on top of speech. We release the stimuli, human ratings, and model predictions.
Evaluating large language models (LLMs) as multi-turn conversational partners requires probing capabilities that single-turn benchmarks miss: persona consistency, evolving intent tracking, emotional dynamics, and goal completion. We introduce EYT-Bench, a human-centered benchmark built around a three-party decoupled design: a persona-grounded user simulator, a target model that separates intent perception from response generation, and an independent third-party LLM judge with optional multi-judge ensembling. Personas are sampled from public human-curated corpora, Nemotron-Personas-USA and PersonaMem-v2, rather than synthesized, reducing LLM-induced persona bias. EYT-Bench also introduces two trajectory-level metrics: embedding-based intent drift and final-intent completion rate (FICR), inspired by tau-bench. In a 17-target x 200-dialogue evaluation, EYT-Bench reveals four findings: (i) state-of-the-art closed- and open-source models are statistically close on subjective dimensions (empathy / persona / anthropomorphism vary within <= 0.3), but differ by up to 9x on objective intent tracking; (ii) reasoning ("thinking on") sharply improves objective tracking on long-context personas (+0.47-0.50 latent-intent accuracy on Gemma-4) while leaving subjective scores nearly unchanged; (iii) persona format dominates trajectory spread, with FICR saturating above 0.95 on Nemotron-USA but spreading from 0.53 to 0.88 on PersonaMem-v2; and (iv) the warm-up effect is robust on 16/17 models (one outlier, GPT-5.5, reverses the effect), with stable rankings across alpha in [0.05, 0.15]. A cross-judge ablation using deepseek-v4-pro confirms that target rankings and final-intent satisfaction are preserved across judges.
Personalized language-model assistants are often evaluated through a memory lens: can a model recall preferences users have explicitly stated in dialogue? More comprehensive personalization demands a harder capability -- inferring what users care about from the multimodal traces they naturally leave behind. We introduce SocialPersona, a benchmark for evaluating whether multimodal large language models (MLLMs) can recover revealed preferences from longitudinal social-media timelines and use them in dialogue. Built from longitudinal timelines of 171 everyday, non-promotional social-media users, SocialPersona contains text, images, timestamps, and 2,597 human-verified preference tags across seven interest domains, separating stable interests from recent interests. It supports two tasks: constructing structured user profiles from multimodal context and generating responses aligned with inferred profiles. Experiments with proprietary and open-weight MLLMs show that models can identify broad interest domains, yet their performance drops on fine-grained and recent interests and degrades further when inferred profiles must be used to personalize dialogue. Together with evidence that text and images provide complementary preference signals, these results indicate that robust cross-modal, long-horizon user modeling remains a key challenge, and that SocialPersona can help measure and advance progress toward assistants that infer and act on revealed preferences.
Training Multimodal Large Language Models for audio-visual social understanding is a crucial step toward embodied social intelligence. Chain-of-thought (CoT) reasoning has become the dominant approach, with HumanOmniV2 and its IntentBench benchmark as a prominent reference point. In this context, we report three findings. First, IntentBench is highly noisy: ∼7% of questions are broken and ∼23% are trivially answerable without the video input. We remove the affected questions and release Intentbench-Prime. Second, current reasoning approaches are expensive and surprisingly ineffective. A simple Vanilla SFT baseline matches or outperforms existing reasoning methods across three benchmarks at a fraction of the cost, establishing it as an essential baseline for evaluating novel fine-tuning techniques. Third, our analysis reveals that substantial priors can be learned solely from the text modality and that using a textual caption instead of the video yields performance on par with Vanilla SFT. These surprising findings reveal the limitations of current MLLMs when it comes to social understanding. IntentBench-Prime, Vanilla SFT model, and code are publicly available.
Koen P. de Vries, Xavier Alameda-Pineda, Estefanía Talavera +1