Privacy Without Regret: Differentially Private Inference-Time Alignment

Best-of-N (BoN) sampling is a widely used inference-time alignment method for language models, whereby N candidate responses are sampled from a reference model and the one with the highest predicted reward according to a learned reward model is selected. Despite its widespread practical use, recent theoretical work has suggested that it is statistically suboptimal and vulnerable to reward hacking, the process by which models exploit weaknesses in the learned reward model to achieve high estimated reward without genuinely improving performance. We revisit this question under assumptions that more closely reflect practice than that of prior work. In particular, in contradistinction to earlier analyses that focused on expected true reward, which may not be meaningful in many practical settings, we investigate how inference-time alignment affects the win-rate, a pairwise comparison-based metric more closely aligned with how reward models are trained and evaluated in practice. We demonstrate that, under minimal conditions on the quality of the reference model and learned reward model, properly tuned BoN is both computationally and statistically optimal in achieving high win-rate, partially explaining its widespread practical success. Because BoN remains susceptible to reward-hacking in this setting, we propose a simple and practical variant that provably eliminates reward-hacking while maintaining optimal statistical performance. Finally, we show that prior approaches are provably suboptimal when considering win-rate, highlighting the importance of choosing appropriate objectives when analyzing inference-time alignment methods.

Inference-time alignment effectively steers large language models (LLMs) by generating multiple candidates from a reference model and selecting among them with an imperfect reward model. However, current strategies face a fundamental dilemma: optimistic'' approaches like Best-of-$N$ suffer from reward hacking, while pessimistic'' regularized methods often stifle the exploration needed to discover high-quality responses. In this work, we formalize this trade-off through the lens of regret minimization, demonstrating that the optimal strategy depends critically on the tail behavior of the reward distribution. We show theoretically that light-tailed regimes favor optimism to unearth high-quality outliers, whereas heavy-tailed regimes require pessimism to guard against reward mis-calibration in the extremes. Guided by this insight, we introduce Best-of-Tails (BoT), an adaptive inference-time alignment framework that uses Tsallis divergence as a tunable regularizer to provide a finer granularity of interpolation between these extremes. BoT uses the Hill estimator to characterize reward-tail heaviness on a per-prompt basis and dynamically adjusts its selection rule to balance exploration gains against alignment error. Across math, multiple-choice reasoning, and human-preference evaluations, BoT improves alignment performance across a range of reference and reward model configurations relative to fixed-strategy baselines.

Best-of-$n$ (BoN) sampling is a simple yet effective inference-time alignment method, but hard maximization provides only coarse control over the trade-off between reward and distribution shift. Soft Best-of-$n$ (Verdun et al. 2025) provides smoother control and converges to the optimal distribution associated with KL-regularized reward maximization. In this paper, we introduce ExpBoN, an alternative soft BoN method based on the exponential-noise report-noisy-max mechanism. It admits an exact finite-$n$ decomposition, which yields exponentially fast convergence in total variation, expected reward, and both directions of KL divergence. We provide comprehensive theoretical analyses of its convergence and regret behavior. We further integrate ExpBoN into the guided speculative inference (GSI) framework (Geuter, Mroueh, and AlvarezMelis 2025), resulting in ExpGSI, for efficient reward-guided LLM alignment. ExpGSI yields substantial reductions in computational cost while maintaining comparable accuracy. Experiments on MATH500, MMLU-STEM, and Minerva Math with the Qwen2.5-Math and Qwen3 model families show that ExpGSI reduces estimated computation by $14\%$-$39\%$ across candidate budgets for Qwen2.5-Math and by up to $45\%$ at $n=16$ for Qwen3. Overall, our results provide a theoretical and algorithmic foundation for exponential-noise BoN and efficient test-time LLM alignment.