HasMem: Hard-Origin Adaptively Softened Memory for Long-Term LLM Agents

Long-term memory enables LLM agents to leverage past interactions, but dialogue histories quickly exceed the context window, forcing agents to retrieve relevant subsets at query time. Because useful evidence is sparse and scattered across verbose conversations, retrieval faces a fundamental tension: broadening recall improves coverage but floods downstream reasoning with noise, while compressing memories at write time eases retrieval but irreversibly discards details that future queries may need. We introduce LazyMem, which resolves this tension by deferring all memory construction to query time. Given a retrieved candidate pool, a lightweight model processes it in overlapping parallel windows, selectively retaining and compressing only query-relevant content. The model is trained with supervised fine-tuning followed by reinforcement learning, using a reward that jointly encourages the identification of relevant messages and the generation of compressions that are faithful to the source and useful for answering the query. On LongMemEval, LazyMem-4B achieves an LLM-judge accuracy of 0.85, outperforming the strongest non-oracle baseline while using only 213 answer-context memory tokens, 21.0 times fewer than the baseline. It further generalizes to LoCoMo without target-domain training and reduces mean latency relative to the prior query-time baseline. Code is available at https://github.com/allacnobug/LazyMem.

Long-term memory systems allow LLM agents to preserve information beyond a single context window, but most systems focus on storing and retrieving facts after extraction, leaving the write decision under-specified. What deserves memory can depend on the user's current task, topic, activity, or interaction partner, while uniform extraction applies one notion of importance across these different situations. We formulate this challenge as preference-conditioned write control and introduce AdaMem, which uses adaptive natural-language Memory Policies to personalize what an agent writes to memory. Each policy represents the user's memory preference for a particular interaction context, is updated from periodic feedback, and controls subsequent memory writing. We evaluate this loop in AdaMem-Bench, which assigns different memory preferences to six concurrent interaction personas across five ten-week stories. Across two extraction models and two feedback modes, AdaMem improves average QA accuracy over Mem0 from 80.0% to 84.35% while reducing persistent memory by 9.27%. Our analyses show that explicit feedback helps models learn better memory policies, but current models still struggle to translate those policies into reliably selective writing behavior. AdaMem thus demonstrates the promise of adaptive write control while exposing policy execution as a central limitation of current memory agents. Our code is publicly available: https://github.com/galaxyChen/AdaMem

Long-term memory is essential for LLM agents to reason coherently across extended interactions, personalize responses, and reuse past experience. However, existing memory-augmented methods typically treat memory as a fixed resource: text-space approaches concatenate retrieved memories into the context window, causing substantial token overhead and sensitivity to noisy evidence, while latent-space approaches reduce textual cost but still rely on rigid retrieval or fixed-capacity memory interfaces. This creates a mismatch between query-dependent memory utility and fixed memory allocation. We propose ElasticMem, a memory-augmented LLM framework that learns to use memory as an elastic latent resource. ElasticMem builds an offline latent memory bank with retrieval keys and content caches, retrieves memories adaptively from the reasoner's hidden state, assigns each retrieved memory a variable latent budget through a learned policy, and injects selected latent states as soft memory tokens for generation. The full memory-use process is optimized with downstream task rewards through group-relative policy optimization. We evaluate ElasticMem on MemorySuite, covering memory-intensive QA and embodied agent control. Across Qwen2.5-3B-Instruct and Qwen2.5-7B-Instruct backbones, ElasticMem improves weighted average QA accuracy by 26.2% and 24.6%, and improves ALFWorld success rate by 66.3% and 27.2%, respectively, over the strongest baselines, while achieving the lowest ALFWorld token cost. Ablations and qualitative analyses further show that adaptive retrieval and elastic budget allocation help ElasticMem prioritize useful evidence and transferable plans beyond rigid cosine similarity. Our code for ElasticMem will be released at https://github.com/ulab-uiuc/ElasticMem.