The Missing Coefficients: Bayesian Pairwise Merging for Model Personalization

While LLMs have demonstrated remarkable potential in Question Answering (QA), evaluating personalization remains a critical bottleneck. Existing paradigms predominantly rely on lexical-level similarity or manual heuristics, often lacking sufficient data-driven validation. We address this by mining Community-Individual Preference Divergence (CIPD), where individual choices override consensus, to distill six key personalization factors as evaluative dimensions. Accordingly, we introduce CoPA, a benchmark with 1,985 user profiles for fine-grained, factor-level assessment. By quantifying the alignment between model outputs and user-specific cognitive preferences inferred from interaction patterns, CoPA provides a more comprehensive and discriminative standard for evaluating personalized QA than generic metrics. The code is available at https://github.com/bjzgcai/CoPA.

Large language models (LLMs) are typically aligned with population-level preferences, despite substantial variation across individual users. We introduce POPI, a user-level personalization framework that separates the problem into two components connected by a natural-language interface: a shared inference model that distills heterogeneous user signals into a concise preference summary, and a shared generator that conditions on this summary to produce personalized responses. Both components are trained under a unified preference-optimization objective, with reinforcement learning handling the non-differentiable inference step. This objective decomposes into generator approximation error and summary informativeness, revealing how a single loss simultaneously drives accurate generation and informative summarization. Because the interface is natural language, learned summaries can be inferred once per user and reused across different generators -- including frozen, black-box commercial APIs. Across four personalization benchmarks, POPI generally improves personalization quality while reducing context overhead by up to an order of magnitude.

Aligning large language models (LLMs) to diverse user preferences is fundamentally hindered by standard alignment paradigms that optimize for monolithic users. In this work, empirical studies are first used to reveal the existence of a massive, untapped performance headroom for personalized generation through test-time alignment. We demonstrate that personalized generation is uniquely suited for test-time scaling methods like Best-of-N (BoN) because it can be viewed primarily as a candidate matching problem rather than a generator capability bottleneck. While reward models could in principle exploit this headroom, they are poorly calibrated for personalization, and their billion-parameter scale makes scoring large candidate pools prohibitively expensive. To overcome this limitation, we propose a parameter-efficient framework utilizing million-parameter scale multi-layer perceptron (MLP) ranking models. Our personalized ranking model directly reuses the internal embeddings of the base generator with minimal overhead. By scaling train-time data to provide fine-grained personalized preferences, this million-parameter ranking model accurately scores large candidate pools and can seamlessly guide generation to reduce the cost of materializing N candidates. Extensive experiments on nine datasets spanning three personalized generation settings show that our personalized ranking model effectively exploits the discovered headroom, outperforming billion-parameter generalist reward models on every dataset, with under 0.4% of their parameters and four orders of magnitude lower scoring latency.