Decouple to Forget: Semantic Mediation for Sensitive Unlearning in Large Language Models

Large language models inevitably retain sensitive information, defined as inputs that may induce harmful generations, due to training on massive web corpora, raising concerns for privacy and safety. Existing machine unlearning methods primarily rely on retraining or aggressive fine-tuning, which are either computationally expensive or prone to degrading related knowledge and overall model utility. In this work, we reformulate machine unlearning as a precise knowledge re-mapping problem via model editing. We propose ZeroUnlearn, a few-shot unlearning framework. It overwrites sensitive inputs by mapping them to a neutral target state and removing their original representations. ZeroUnlearn enforces representational orthogonality through a multiplicative parameter update with a closed-form solution, enabling efficient and targeted unlearning. We further extend ZeroUnlearn to a gradient-based variant for multi-sample unlearning. Experiments demonstrate that our approach outperforms existing baselines while preserving general model utility. Our code is available at the github: https://github.com/XMUDeepLIT/ZeroUnlearn.

Mitigating sensitive and harmful outputs is fundamental to ensuring safe deployment of LLMs. Existing approaches typically follow two paradigms: Knowledge Deletion (KD), which erases undesirable information during training, and Distinguishable Refusal (DR), which steers models away from using sensitive knowledge during inference. Despite rapid progress, KD-based unlearning struggles with biased deletion due to suppressing specific token sequences as a substitute for complete knowledge removal, whereas DR-based unlearning risks the re-emergence of harmful knowledge because the underlying knowledge remains intact. To address these issues, we propose Distinguishable Deletion ($\mathrm{D^2}$), a paradigm that restricts the response distribution in the latent representation rather than specific tokens to erase undesirable knowledge, while distinguishing it from retained knowledge, enabling a refusal mechanism to handle unlearned inputs safely and coherently. To implement $\mathrm{D^2}$, we introduce an energy index that quantifies the presence of knowledge and the separation between unlearned and retained content. Mathematical and empirical analyses show that energy is both accurate and efficient, enabling Energy-based Unlearning Alignment (EUA) to enforce energy-boundary unlearning during training and apply an energy-based refusal mechanism at inference. Extensive experiments demonstrate that EUA significantly outperforms previous methods, indicating the superiority of $\mathrm{D^2}$. Our code is available at https://github.com/Puning97/EUA-for-LLM-Unlearning.

Multimodal large language models (MLLMs) can inadvertently memorize privacy-sensitive information during training. While existing unlearning methods can remove such content, they often severely degrade the model's foundational capabilities, such as general image understanding. This critical shortfall motivates our investigation into benign memory forgetting, the precise removal of targeted, privacy-sensitive knowledge while rigorously preserving unrelated capabilities. To pioneer and evaluate progress toward this objective, we introduce S-MLLMUn Bench, the first benchmark designed to jointly and quantitatively assess an unlearning method's efficacy in knowledge erasure and the preservation of image understanding. Furthermore, we propose the Sculpted Memory Forgetting Adapter (SMFA), a new framework that enables benign memory forgetting. SMFA confines forgetting to designated memory regions, maintaining overall model performance. By initially fine-tuning the model to replace sensitive outputs with refusals, SMFA generates a memory forgetting adapter, followed by a retaining anchor-guided masking mechanism that safeguards unrelated knowledge. Extensive experiments on S-MLLMUn Bench demonstrate that existing methods fail to achieve benign forgetting, whereas our proposed SMFA serves as an effective baseline, successfully achieving targeted knowledge erasure without compromising the model's foundational visual capabilities. Code and data are available at https://github.com/zeng-zhen/S-MLLMUn.