TPO: Tri-level Distributionally Robust Learning for OOD Direct Preference Optimization

Direct preference optimization DPO is a promising offline approach for aligning large language models (LLMs) due to its simplicity, computational efficiency, and implicit modeling of human preferences. Interestingly, iterative extensions of DPO have achieved stronger performance on academic benchmarks, raising two key questions: (i) Why do iterative methods generally outperform offline ones? (ii) Can their advantages be incorporated into offline alignment? To answer the first question, our controlled experiments reveal that the explicit preference model, additionally introduced in the iterative procedure, is a key factor behind its superiority over offline methods. This insight leads us to answer the second question affirmatively and propose Distilled Preference Probability Policy Optimization (DP3O), an effective and efficient offline alignment algorithm. DP3O first learns an explicit preference model using a helper class of LLMs and then distills its knowledge into policy optimization. Theoretically, we show that explicit preference modeling admits better estimation error control than implicit formulations, and that DP3O achieves a tighter generalization bound than hard-label DPO through variance reduction. Empirically, we evaluate DP3O on a wide range of chat-based and downstream tasks and show that it outperforms state-of-the-art offline methods, achieves performance comparable to iterative DPO, and reduces training time by about $42\%$, demonstrating both its effectiveness and efficiency.

Aligning large language models (LLMs) with human preferences is commonly done via reinforcement learning from human feedback (RLHF) with Proximal Policy Optimization (PPO) or, more simply, via Direct Preference Optimization (DPO). While DPO is stable and RL-free, it treats preferences as flat winner vs. loser signals and is sensitive to noisy or brittle preferences arising from fragile chains of thought. We propose TUR-DPO, a topology- and uncertainty-aware variant of DPO that rewards how answers are derived, not only what they say, by eliciting lightweight reasoning topologies and combining semantic faithfulness, utility, and topology quality into a calibrated uncertainty signal. A small learnable reward is factorized over these signals and incorporated into an uncertainty-weighted DPO objective that remains RL-free and relies only on a fixed or moving reference policy. Empirically, across open 7-8B models and benchmarks spanning mathematical reasoning, factual question answering, summarization, and helpful/harmless dialogue, TUR-DPO improves judge win-rates, faithfulness, and calibration relative to DPO while preserving training simplicity and avoiding online rollouts. We further observe consistent gains in multimodal and long-context settings, and show that TUR-DPO matches or exceeds PPO on reasoning-centric tasks while maintaining operational simplicity.

Direct Preference Optimization (DPO) aligns Large Language Models with human preferences without the need for a separate reward model. However, DPO treats all tokens in responses equally, neglecting the differing importance of individual tokens. Existing token-level PO methods compute the token weights using either token-position-based heuristic functions or probability estimates given by a separately trained model, which lacks robustness and incurs extra training cost. In contrast, we propose Token-weighted DPO (TwDPO) -- a novel training objective grounded on token-weighted RL -- and AttentionPO -- an instantiation of TwDPO that uses attention from the LLM itself to estimate token weights. AttentionPO prompts the LLM to serve as a pairwise judge and check where the model attends when comparing the responses. This design makes AttentionPO content-aware, adjusting weights based on response content, and efficient, incurring only two extra forward passes per example. Experiment results show that AttentionPO significantly improves performance on AlpacaEval, MT-Bench, and ArenaHard, surpassing existing Preference Optimization methods.