As Large Language Models (LLMs) are increasingly used for long-duration tasks, maintaining effective long-term memory has become a critical challenge. Current methods often face a trade-off between cost and accuracy. Simple storage methods often fail to retrieve relevant information, while complex indexing methods (such as memory graphs) require heavy computation and can cause information loss. Furthermore, relying on the working LLM to process all memories is computationally expensive and slow. To address these limitations, we propose MemSifter, a novel framework that offloads the memory retrieval process to a small-scale proxy model. Instead of increasing the burden on the primary working LLM, MemSifter uses a smaller model to reason about the task before retrieving the necessary information. This approach requires no heavy computation during the indexing phase and adds minimal overhead during inference. To optimize the proxy model, we introduce a memory-specific Reinforcement Learning (RL) training paradigm. We design a task-outcome-oriented reward based on the working LLM's actual performance in completing the task. The reward measures the actual contribution of retrieved memories by mutiple interactions with the working LLM, and discriminates retrieved rankings by stepped decreasing contributions. Additionally, we employ training techniques such as Curriculum Learning and Model Merging to improve performance. We evaluated MemSifter on eight LLM memory benchmarks, including Deep Research tasks. The results demonstrate that our method meets or exceeds the performance of existing state-of-the-art approaches in both retrieval accuracy and final task completion. MemSifter offers an efficient and scalable solution for long-term LLM memory. We have open-sourced the model weights, code, and training data to support further research.
Long-term memory is essential for LLM-based agents to sustain interactions and reliably leverage distant history. However, existing memory systems typically process heterogeneous dialogue content through a uniform summarization and retrieval pipeline, leading to either excessive token consumption or irreversible loss of fine-grained evidence. We argue that historical dialogue content should be handled differently according to its compressibility, temporal dynamics, and fidelity requirements. Based on this insight, we propose LeanMem, a lightweight long-term memory framework. LeanMem first filters out low-value content, then stores informative segments as compact profile memory, temporally structured event memory, or source-grounded record memory, depending on the nature of the information. During maintenance, only dynamically evolving event memories are selectively updated, avoiding redundant consolidation of stable profiles and immutable records. During inference, LeanMem dynamically selects memory types and allocates retrieval budgets according to query-specific evidence demands, assembling relevant evidence on demand. On LoCoMo and LongMemEval-S with GPT-4.1-mini and Qwen3-8B, LeanMem improves accuracy over the strongest memory-based baseline in every setting, by up to 15.1 points, at the lowest or near-lowest construction cost, inference tokens, and latency. The code and datasets are included in the supplementary materials.
Latent memory, which stores past knowledge fragments as per-layer hidden states, has emerged as a promising paradigm (e.g., MemoryLLM and M+) for long-term memory in large language models (LLMs). However, the paradigm suffers from significant performance degradation during memory updates, due to positional encoding misalignment and the absence of any tracing mechanism to distinguish target memory fragments from irrelevant ones. To discover such a tracing mechanism, we probe the layer-wise attention density over stored memory fragments, and find that a small set of middle transformer layers consistently concentrates the highest density on the target fragment - exposing an inherent tracing signal. In light of this, we propose MemDefrag, a training-free and model-agnostic framework that (1) uses a middle-layer tracing signal to conduct memory defragmentation (rank, reorder, and filter memories), and (2) applies an informativeness-guided proportional forgetting mechanism once capacity is exceeded. Experiments show that MemDefrag substantially outperforms MemoryLLM and M+ on knowledge retention (e.g., 43.0% vs. 17.4%/17.6% after 50 memory updates) and long-context benchmarks, and generalizes well across various LLMs and latent-memory variants. The code is available at github.com/ryehr/MemDefrag.
Large Language Models (LLMs) are increasingly expected to interact with users over long time horizons. However, due to their finite context window, LLMs cannot retain all past interactions, making long-term memory management essential for storing, updating, and retrieving historical information beyond the context limit. Although recent memory systems attempt to address this issue by storing historical information externally, existing approaches suffer from three key limitations: flat text-based memory organizations fail to capture explicit relations among memories, structured memory systems often destructively overwrite evolving facts, and current retrieval mechanisms remain query-agnostic and passive when evidence is incomplete. REAL constructs long-term conversational memory as a temporal and confidence-aware directed property graph, where each atomic fact is represented with entities, relations, valid-time intervals, confidence scores, and exploration intent labels. During memory construction, REAL adopts a non-destructive temporal update strategy that preserves parallel fact versions and their validity intervals, enabling faithful tracking of fact evolution. During retrieval, REAL anchors query-relevant root entities, decouples their exploration intents, and performs semantic evaluator-guided hybrid beam search to extract compact memory subgraphs. It further incorporates counterfactual inference to repair unreliable retrieval states and recover missing memory evidence through implicit logical relations. Comprehensive experiments demonstrate that REAL substantially improves long-term memory performance over flat-text, graph-based, and existing memory baselines, achieving an average improvement of 22.72%.