Modeling LLM Unlearning as an Asymmetric Two-Task Learning Problem

Machine unlearning has become a critical capability for safely removing specific, sensitive knowledge from large language models (LLMs). Current state-of-the-art approaches primarily rely on iterative, training-time unlearning via fine-tuning. However, even when utilizing parameter-efficient dimensionality reduction techniques like LoRA, gradient-based optimization remains computationally expensive and lacks explicit analytical formulations. It can also leave the targeted knowledge merely hidden rather than removed, to the point that simply quantizing the unlearned model restores much of what it was supposed to have erased. To resolve this, we propose a novel one-shot unlearning approach, abandoning iterative optimization in favor of a direct, exact analytical solution. We frame the unlearning process as a ridge-regularized least-squares optimization problem, deriving a closed-form additive update for targeted weight matrices. This update forces the selected layer to suppress unwanted content while strictly preserving its behavior on retained data. Computed from gradient-free forward passes alone, with no backpropagation and no iteration to convergence, GROM applies the weight edit in mere seconds, which makes it orders of magnitude faster than traditional fine-tuning. Extensive evaluations demonstrate that GROM achieves state-of-the-art forgetting-utility trade-offs on TOFU-5%, TOFU-10%, MUSE-Books, MUSE-News and WMDP, significantly reducing computational overhead without sacrificing overall model performance. Because the update removes the targeted content from the weights instead of masking it, GROM also withstands the low-bit quantization attack that recovers much of the content a gradient-based baseline had appeared to forget. Our code is publicly available at https://github.com/Batorskq/GROM.

LLM unlearning aims to remove the influence of undesirable knowledge from pretrained language models, which offers a practical mechanism for addressing safety and privacy concerns. Existing unlearning approaches, such as Gradient Ascent, are prone to catastrophic forgetting. Alignment-based approaches provide an alternative direction, yet their effectiveness is limited by the quality of the reference model. In realistic settings, both methods still require large retention datasets to preserve general knowledge. We propose a principled method that quantifies the target LLM's confidence in undesirable knowledge and uses it to calibrate the model's unlearning gradient updates more precisely. It enables fine-grained control over forgetting while better preserving model utility, thus reducing the dependence on retention data or prohibitive unlearning training data. Extensive evaluations on multiple benchmarks, including MUSE and WMDP, show that our method achieves effective unlearning and improves the trade-off between knowledge removal and utility preservation compared with state-of-the-art methods.

Machine unlearning for large language models (LLMs) aims to selectively remove memorized content such as private data, copyrighted text, or hazardous knowledge, without costly full retraining. Most existing methods require a retain set of curated examples to prevent catastrophic degradation of general model utility, creating an extra data dependency that complicates deployment. We propose SHRED (Self-distillation via High-surprisal-only Retain-set-free Entropy Demotion), a retain-set-free unlearning method built on a key insight: not all tokens within a forget set instance carry memorized information equally. High-information tokens concentrate the model's memorized knowledge, while low-information tokens reflect general language competence. SHRED operates in two stages. (1) Selection: We perform a forward pass on a forget set instance, collect per-token autoregressive probabilities, and select the bottom (lowest probability, highest Shannon information) as forget positions; the remaining positions are retained as benign anchors. (2) Training: We construct modified KL targets that demote the memorized token's logit at forget positions while preserving the original distribution at benign positions. The model is then trained via a single top KL self-distillation objective that simultaneously drives forgetting and utility preservation. We evaluate SHRED across four standard unlearning benchmarks and demonstrate that it establishes a new Pareto-optimal trade-off between forget efficacy and model utility, outperforming retain-set-dependent methods. Our analysis shows that SHRED is robust against relearning attacks and membership-inference attacks, and it maintains stable utility even after many sequential unlearning runs.