Preference optimization is widely used to align Large Language Models (LLMs) with preference feedback. However, most existing methods train on a single positive-negative pair per prompt, discarding additional supervision available in preference datasets that typically contain multiple candidate responses. Motivated by this limitation, recent work explores group-wise preference optimization, which jointly contrasts multiple responses for the same prompt, but its empirical behavior and scalability remain underexplored due to the memory overhead of group-coupled objectives. In this work, we present a unified empirical and systems study of group-wise preference optimization and develop a memory-efficient implementation for group-coupled objectives. By instantiating first-order linearization with objective-specific per-response coefficients, our implementation preserves first-order gradients while decoupling samples during backpropagation, substantially reducing peak memory usage and enabling scalable training with larger groups. Across offline and online settings, we show that leveraging multiple responses consistently outperforms single-pair training. Furthermore, incorporating a negative log-likelihood (NLL) term on positive responses is critical for both performance gains and training stability.
Although Large Language Models (LLMs) have made remarkable progress, current preference optimization methods still struggle to align directional consistency while preserving reasoning diversity. To address this limitation, we propose Directional-Groupwise Preference Optimization (DGPO), a lightweight framework that aggregates supervision signals at the group level and explicitly models direction-aware alignment through multi-candidate comparisons. DGPO organizes forward and reverse question-answer instances into structured sets and optimizes a margin-based likelihood objective that separates coherent reasoning paths from inconsistent alternatives. This group-wise formulation captures richer relative information than pairwise objectives and reinforces consistency across diverse reasoning pathways. Empirical results show that our constructed reverse data yields a 3.2% average improvement across five benchmarks, while DGPO further delivers consistent gains across multiple datasets and model families, achieving average accuracy improvements of up to 3.6%.
Curriculum learning enhances Direct Preference Optimization (DPO) for aligning Large Language Models (LLMs), yet existing methods rely on a one-dimensional view of difficulty. In this work, we reframe alignment difficulty as a two-dimensional space spanned by Prompt Complexity (PC) and Pairwise Distinguishability (PD), providing a more principled foundation for alignment. We first demonstrate the efficacy of this space by developing DM-Curri-DPO, a framework of static curricula that already achieves significant gains over baseline methods. Moving beyond these handcrafted paths, we introduce our primary contribution: GSP-Curri-DPO, a novel Group-wise Self-Paced Learning framework. This advanced method empowers the model to navigate the difficulty grid, discovering an optimal learning trajectory based on its own evolving capabilities. Extensive experiments show our self-paced approach not only sets a new state-of-the-art on key benchmarks but, more importantly, demonstrates superior data efficiency and robustness to preference noise. Our work establishes a new paradigm for LLM alignment, offering both a structured difficulty space and an intelligent, model-driven methodology for navigating it.
Fine-tuning large language models (LLMs) to align with human preferences has driven the success of systems such as Gemini and ChatGPT. However, approaches like Reinforcement Learning from Human Feedback (RLHF) remain computationally expensive and complex. Direct Preference Optimization (DPO) offers a simpler alternative but has limitations such as inconsistent ranking accuracy, high dependence on GPU resources, and expensive hyperparameter tuning. We propose the Convex Optimization for Alignment and Preference Learning Algorithm (COALA): a novel lightweight strategy with strong theoretical guarantees. By leveraging the convex optimization reformulation of neural networks, COALA eliminates the need for a reference model and obtains significant reduction in both training time and VRAM consumption, thus enabling efficient training on a single GPU. Experiments across four datasets--including a 26621-sample synthetic Educational Feedback dataset--and six models (including Llama-3.1-8B) demonstrate COALA's competitive performance and efficiency while utilizing as little as ~17.6% of DPO's total TFLOPs. COALA exhibits stable, monotonically increasing rewards and reaches peak margins in significantly shorter time in comparison to traditional methods such as DPO and ORPO. To the best of our knowledge, this is the first time convex optimization has been effectively applied to preference fine-tuning of LLMs.