Learning When to Remember: Risk-Sensitive Contextual Bandits for Abstention-Aware Memory Retrieval in LLM-Based Coding Agents

Large language model (LLM) coding agents increasingly operate over repositories, terminals, tests, and execution traces across long software-engineering episodes. Persistent memory is useful, but static vector stores or generic retrieval-augmented generation (RAG) are insufficient for reinforcement-learning (RL) code development, where small details can alter Bellman targets, terminal masks, gradient flow, or validation claims. This paper presents RL Developer Memory, a local-first, Model Context Protocol (MCP)-native developer-memory architecture for RL coding agents. It treats memory selection as a logged contextual decision process: issue_match ranks candidates and records telemetry, issue_feedback maps raw labels to bounded rewards, and issue_record_resolution links verified resolutions to earlier retrieval events. A deterministic ranker remains deployed, while a contextual-bandit residual policy runs in shadow mode and can affect canary behavior only through conservative off-policy-evaluation (OPE) gates. RL/control memories require theory-to-code metadata and review-gated governance. The system is evaluated on a deterministic 200-case benchmark with RL algorithm bugs, hard negatives, review-gated RL/control cases, and low-risk failures. In the same-commit comparison, deterministic control and full shadow/OPE both achieve 80.0% expected-decision accuracy and 100.0% hard-negative suppression; the full configuration adds learning telemetry rather than accuracy gain. Static validation passed 11/11 checks; dynamic integration passed 10/10 cases. The evidence reports limits: active learned-policy deployment and official-client MCP interoperability are unsupported, live full-configuration latency regresses, and 40 residual non-RL failures remain. The contribution is an auditable memory-control architecture with explicit claim boundaries, not a universal coding-agent improvement claim.

Safety evaluations of memory-equipped LLM agents typically measure within-task safety: whether an agent completes a single scenario safely, often under adversarial conditions such as prompt injection or memory poisoning. In deployment, however, a single agent serves many independent tasks over a long horizon, and memory accumulated during earlier tasks can affect behavior on later, unrelated ones. Studying this regime requires evaluation along the temporal dimension across tasks: not whether an agent is safe at any single memory state, but how its safety profile changes as memory accumulates across many independent interactions. We call this failure mode temporal memory contamination. To isolate memory exposure from stream non-stationarity, we introduce a trigger-probe protocol that evaluates a fixed probe set against read-only memory snapshots at varying prefix lengths, together with a NullMemory counterfactual baseline for identifying memory-induced violations. We apply this protocol across three deployment scenarios spanning records, memos, forms, and email correspondence and eight memory architectures, and additionally on Claw-like AI agents, such as OpenClaw, using the platform's native memory mechanism. Memory-enabled agents consistently exceed the NullMemory baseline, and memory-induced violation rates show a robust upward trend with exposure length on both agent classes. Order-randomization experiments indicate that the effect is driven primarily by accumulated content rather than encounter order. Finally, a structural consequence of the event decomposition is that memory-induced risk is detectable from retrieval state before generation, which we confirm with a high-recall diagnostic monitor. Our results argue for treating memory safety as a longitudinal property that requires temporal evaluation, not a single-state property that can be captured by a snapshot.

Large Language Model (LLM) agents increasingly rely on external memory systems to accumulate experience across tasks. Yet nearly all existing approaches, from graph-structured memories to reflective insight stores, access memory through fixed, hand-designed heuristics. We argue that this static view of memory is a core bottleneck for agentic learning because optimal memory behavior is fundamentally context-dependent. The early stages of the tasks, benefit from minimal retrieval because memory is sparse; recurring goal types benefit from plan reuse rather than generic nearest-neighbor lookup; stuck agents benefit from re-retrieval with alternative queries; and across long task streams, the memory store itself must be consolidated and pruned to remain useful. We present Memory as a Controlled Process (MemCon), a framework that models memory operations as a Markov Decision Process and learns an online policy that adaptively decides when, what, and how much to retrieve, when to inject a distilled plan, and when to consolidate or forget. MemCon is backend-agnostic: it wraps any existing memory implementation, learns from task-by-task binary feedback with no pretraining and no additional LLM calls, and uses a lightweight tabular contextual bandit with UCB exploration that converges within tens of tasks. Across 6 benchmarks, 3 agent frameworks, and 3 LLM backbones, MemCon consistently outperforms multiple memory baselines by up to 15.2 points in task success while reducing token consumption by 5--20%.