PsychoSafe: Eliciting Psychologically-Informed Refusals in Large Language Models
Authors: Gianluca Barmina, Federico Torrielli, Sven Harms, Jacob Nielsen, Felix Mächtle, Stine Lyngsø Beltoft, Peter Schneider-Kamp, Thomas Eisenbarth, +2 more
Organizations: University of Southern Denmark · University of Turin · University of Hamburg · University of Lübeck
Abstract
Large language models (LLMs) routinely face requests that should be refused, creating a trade-off between helpfulness and harm prevention. However, refusals themselves can be helpful. In high-risk interactions involving crisis, coercion, or escalating intent, blunt non-compliance may prevent direct harm while still failing to support the needs of the person behind the request. We present PsychoSafe, a psychologically-informed refusal framework that reframes refusal as structured supportive communication grounded in evidence-based intervention strategies. To develop PsychoSafe, we construct a corpus of 8019 prompt-response pairs spanning five psychologically salient risk domains and apply prompting and parameter-efficient fine-tuning to Qwen 3.5 27B. On a balanced validation set of 500 prompts, evaluated with an LLM judge and validated through human ratings, PsychoSafe prompting improves overall refusal quality by 28.1% over a generic baseline, with particularly strong gains in external resource referral (+46.8%) and psychological grounding (+34.8%), while preserving downstream performance on non-refusal tasks. Fine-tuning achieves near-perfect refusal and resource-referral rates but reduces response relevance. Additional evaluations on SORRY-Bench and XSTest show strong in-domain robustness but limited out-of-domain generalization, suggesting that future work should diversify fine-tuning data to help models apply interventions selectively rather than schematically.
Safety-aligned large language models (LLMs) often generate refusal responses to harmless queries due to the over-refusal problem. However, existing methods for mitigating over-refusal cannot maintain a low refusal ratio for harmless queries while keeping a high refusal ratio for malicious ones. In this paper, we analyze how system prompts with varying safety levels affect LLM refusal behaviors when facing over-refusal queries. A key observation is that, when LLMs suffer from the over-refusal issue, non-refusal tokens remain present in the next-token candidate list, but the model systematically fails to select them, despite the generation of refusal tokens. Based on this observation, we propose a training-free and model-agnostic approach, Adaptive Contrastive Decoding (AdaCD), to mitigate over-refusal while maintaining LLM safety. First, AdaCD compares the output distributions of the LLM with or without an extreme safety system prompt to refine the refusal token distribution. Second, we introduce an adaptive contrastive decoding strategy that dynamically incorporates or removes the refusal token distribution, adaptively boosting the probability of selecting refusal or non-refusal tokens. Experimental results on five benchmark datasets show that, on average, AdaCD reduces the refusal ratio for over-refusal queries by 10.35%, yet still increases the refusal ratio for malicious queries by 0.13%. Code is available at https://github.com/OutdoorManofML/AdaCD.
Refusals are often treated as face-threatening acts in pragmatics because they can challenge the requester's socially claimed self-image. Large language models (LLMs) are increasingly trained to refuse unsafe and inappropriate requests, and these refusals may harm users when models fail to manage this interactional cost properly. While existing work has mainly approached LLM non-compliance as a safety-alignment outcome, it does not provide a way to evaluate whether LLMs refuse appropriately across different harmful contexts. To study this question, we propose (to our knowledge) the first taxonomy of LLM refusals that is grounded in pragmatic theory. Applying this taxonomy to responses from 16 modern LLMs across 14 harm categories, we find that although models differ in how they refuse, their refusals are overall explicit and strongly morally evaluative, with interactional repair occurring mainly through offering or providing safer alternatives instead of interpersonal facework. This pattern is especially consequential in sensitive harm contexts, where overuse of negative framing may make users feel shamed or provoked, undermining the purpose of safe non-compliance. We therefore call for alignment evaluation that considers not only whether models refuse harmful requests, but also whether they refuse in ways that are contextually adaptive and socially accountable for the interactional consequences of saying no.
Refusal rates are a poor proxy for LLM safety, i.e., a model may over-refuse benign prompts while still complying with harmful ones. We audit both failure modes across 21 open-weight LLMs on four safety benchmarks (OR-Bench, XSTest, ToxiGen, BOLD), using a composition adjustment to isolate model sensitivity from dataset toxicity confounds. We report three findings. First, models adopt fundamentally different calibration strategies: conservative ecosystems such as Llama suppress unsafe outputs at the cost of elevated over-refusals, while permissive ecosystems such as DeepSeek and Qwen preserve helpfulness but tolerate higher harmful compliance. Second, demographic protection is unequal: models over-protect prominent racial and religious groups, frequently refusing even benign prompts about them, while providing substantially weaker protection against disability-targeted attacks. Third, refusal and compliance tendencies are stable within model families across generations and scales, suggesting that post-training objectives shape safety behavior more than architecture. Our results call for joint, demographically-aware, and multi-judge safety evaluation.