Multimodal large language models (MLLMs) exhibit strong vision--language capabilities but may also memorize and disclose sensitive information. Machine unlearning seeks to remove designated knowledge without retraining from scratch while preserving general utility. Existing privacy-oriented benchmarks primarily adopt profile-level deletion, whereas practical requests are often finer grained: a model should forget a specified attribute while retaining non-sensitive information about the same identity. We therefore introduce attribute-level MLLM unlearning as a finer-grained task and construct a benchmark spanning long-text, numeric, and short-text targets, multiple forget ratios, and diverse question types. Our evaluation reveals that target and retained attributes share identity-specific and visual evidence, making selective forgetting susceptible to residual leakage or collateral degradation; accordingly, existing methods exhibit unstable forgetting--retention trade-offs in this setting. To address this challenge, we propose Causal Localization and Retain-Aware Projection (CLRP), a lightweight training-free framework. CLRP uses activation patching to identify the layer that causally mediates target-attribute disclosure, then applies a retain-aware projection that removes the target-attribute subspace while preserving same-identity evidence. Experiments across multiple widely used MLLMs with distinct architectures and parameter scales demonstrate the effectiveness of CLRP.
Removing a specific individual's information from multimodal large language models (MLLMs) is often needed after deployment, but existing methods rely on a retain set, which is hardest to obtain at that point, and rebuilding it recreates the privacy exposure that unlearning aims to remove. Forgetting from the forget set alone instead damages the shared visual-language computation, harming perception. We cast retain-free unlearning as a localization problem: causal tracing, weight transplant, and Fisher overlap all point to early-to-mid decoder MLPs as the layers where identity information is stored and, unlike other module families, can be modified without substantially disrupting vision. We turn this into Pathway-Aware Visual-attribute Anchoring (PAVA), which confines updates to these layers and pairs a forget loss with a visual-attribute anchor that preserves image-grounded behavior by distilling the model's own pre-unlearning answers from the forget images alone. On MLLMU-Bench and ReMem, PAVA gives the strongest forget-retain trade-off among forget-set-only methods and remains competitive with retain-based baselines.
Multimodal large language models (MLLMs) can inadvertently memorize privacy-sensitive information during training. While existing unlearning methods can remove such content, they often severely degrade the model's foundational capabilities, such as general image understanding. This critical shortfall motivates our investigation into benign memory forgetting, the precise removal of targeted, privacy-sensitive knowledge while rigorously preserving unrelated capabilities. To pioneer and evaluate progress toward this objective, we introduce S-MLLMUn Bench, the first benchmark designed to jointly and quantitatively assess an unlearning method's efficacy in knowledge erasure and the preservation of image understanding. Furthermore, we propose the Sculpted Memory Forgetting Adapter (SMFA), a new framework that enables benign memory forgetting. SMFA confines forgetting to designated memory regions, maintaining overall model performance. By initially fine-tuning the model to replace sensitive outputs with refusals, SMFA generates a memory forgetting adapter, followed by a retaining anchor-guided masking mechanism that safeguards unrelated knowledge. Extensive experiments on S-MLLMUn Bench demonstrate that existing methods fail to achieve benign forgetting, whereas our proposed SMFA serves as an effective baseline, successfully achieving targeted knowledge erasure without compromising the model's foundational visual capabilities. Code and data are available at https://github.com/zeng-zhen/S-MLLMUn.
Machine unlearning offers a promising approach to remove unsafe content from Multimodal Large Language Models (MLLMs), yet ensuring the precision of unlearning remains a persistent challenge. One reason is that current MLLM unlearning evaluation paradigms suffer from a critical blind spot: they assess model utility through benchmarks whose representations are distant from the forget set, failing to capture knowledge holes---severe degradation on benign adjacent inputs. To probe knowledge holes in unlearned MLLMs, we construct a benchmark that captures unintended degradation on benign inputs sharing generic patterns with the forget set, and confirm through controlled experiments that they are a systematic consequence of commonly used approaches. Furthermore, to bridge this gap, we propose Selective Protection with Anchored Regularization, which protects generic patterns via anchored activation filtering while reinforcing them through entity-abstracted enhancement. Our experiments on SafeEraser demonstrate that SPAR recovers over 98% of vanilla response quality compared to below 50% for standard baselines---while achieving 0.00% attack success rate and competitive model utility. These results underscore the necessity of more fine-grained evaluation for trustworthy MLLM unlearning.