Where Identity Lives: Localized, Retain-Free Identity Unlearning in Multimodal Large Language Models
Authors: Kangwook Ko, Jaehyuk Jang, Wonjun Lee, Hee-Seon Kim, Changick Kim
Organizations: KAIST
Abstract
Removing a specific individual's information from multimodal large language models (MLLMs) is often needed after deployment, but existing methods rely on a retain set, which is hardest to obtain at that point, and rebuilding it recreates the privacy exposure that unlearning aims to remove. Forgetting from the forget set alone instead damages the shared visual-language computation, harming perception. We cast retain-free unlearning as a localization problem: causal tracing, weight transplant, and Fisher overlap all point to early-to-mid decoder MLPs as the layers where identity information is stored and, unlike other module families, can be modified without substantially disrupting vision. We turn this into Pathway-Aware Visual-attribute Anchoring (PAVA), which confines updates to these layers and pairs a forget loss with a visual-attribute anchor that preserves image-grounded behavior by distilling the model's own pre-unlearning answers from the forget images alone. On MLLMU-Bench and ReMem, PAVA gives the strongest forget-retain trade-off among forget-set-only methods and remains competitive with retain-based baselines.
Multimodal large language models (MLLMs) exhibit strong vision--language capabilities but may also memorize and disclose sensitive information. Machine unlearning seeks to remove designated knowledge without retraining from scratch while preserving general utility. Existing privacy-oriented benchmarks primarily adopt profile-level deletion, whereas practical requests are often finer grained: a model should forget a specified attribute while retaining non-sensitive information about the same identity. We therefore introduce attribute-level MLLM unlearning as a finer-grained task and construct a benchmark spanning long-text, numeric, and short-text targets, multiple forget ratios, and diverse question types. Our evaluation reveals that target and retained attributes share identity-specific and visual evidence, making selective forgetting susceptible to residual leakage or collateral degradation; accordingly, existing methods exhibit unstable forgetting--retention trade-offs in this setting. To address this challenge, we propose Causal Localization and Retain-Aware Projection (CLRP), a lightweight training-free framework. CLRP uses activation patching to identify the layer that causally mediates target-attribute disclosure, then applies a retain-aware projection that removes the target-attribute subspace while preserving same-identity evidence. Experiments across multiple widely used MLLMs with distinct architectures and parameter scales demonstrate the effectiveness of CLRP.
Multimodal Large Language Models (MLLMs) may memorize sensitive cross-modal information during pretraining. However, existing MLLM unlearning benchmarks rely on synthetic knowledge injection or complete subject-level deletion, which fail to capture realistic, personalized deletion requests that require fine-grained factual control. In this paper, we introduce PPU-Bench, a real-world and fine-tuning-free benchmark for personalized partial unlearning in MLLMs. PPU-Bench contains 24K multimodal and unimodal samples derived from pre-existing knowledge of 500 public figures under three progressively challenging settings: Complete, Selective, and Personalized unlearning. The benchmark evaluates whether methods can remove target knowledge while preserving non-target facts, model utility, and cross-modal consistency. Extensive experiments show that Complete Unlearning often suppresses visual identity rather than factual knowledge, while Selective and Personalized Unlearning expose significant forget--retain trade-offs and challenges in intra-subject factual boundaries. Robustness analysis under cross-image and prompt-based attacks reveals distinct vulnerabilities across different unlearning settings. Motivated by these findings, we propose Boundary-Aware Optimization (BAO), which explicitly models intra-subject forget-retain boundaries. Experimental results on two representative methods demonstrate that BAO can effectively enforce intra-subject factual boundaries.
Multimodal large language models (MLLMs) can inadvertently memorize privacy-sensitive information during training. While existing unlearning methods can remove such content, they often severely degrade the model's foundational capabilities, such as general image understanding. This critical shortfall motivates our investigation into benign memory forgetting, the precise removal of targeted, privacy-sensitive knowledge while rigorously preserving unrelated capabilities. To pioneer and evaluate progress toward this objective, we introduce S-MLLMUn Bench, the first benchmark designed to jointly and quantitatively assess an unlearning method's efficacy in knowledge erasure and the preservation of image understanding. Furthermore, we propose the Sculpted Memory Forgetting Adapter (SMFA), a new framework that enables benign memory forgetting. SMFA confines forgetting to designated memory regions, maintaining overall model performance. By initially fine-tuning the model to replace sensitive outputs with refusals, SMFA generates a memory forgetting adapter, followed by a retaining anchor-guided masking mechanism that safeguards unrelated knowledge. Extensive experiments on S-MLLMUn Bench demonstrate that existing methods fail to achieve benign forgetting, whereas our proposed SMFA serves as an effective baseline, successfully achieving targeted knowledge erasure without compromising the model's foundational visual capabilities. Code and data are available at https://github.com/zeng-zhen/S-MLLMUn.