Large language models are increasingly aligned to human preferences via reward modeling, but user preference data are sensitive and often cannot be centralized. Federated learning keeps such data local while learning a shared initial reward model, which is later personalized for each client through local fine-tuning. Because users often assign opposite labels to the same pair of responses, existing federated methods address preference heterogeneity by clustering similar clients and training one reward model per group, assuming that each group requires its own initialization. We show that this assumption is unnecessary. Under balanced preference groups, a single FedAvg model, despite starting at nearly random accuracy, surpasses reward models trained separately for each ground-truth group after only a few local optimization steps. We attribute this phenomenon to the flatness of the shared initialization: averaging across all clients learns richer shared representations that distinguish responses while canceling conflicting preference directions, leaving the model near a decision boundary that can be rapidly adapted. Group imbalance breaks this effect as the cancellation becomes asymmetric and leaves minority clients too far from the boundary to recover. Motivated by this observation, we propose FedGD (Federated Learning with Group Debiasing), which discovers latent preference groups during federated training and learns a single reward model using group-debiased client sampling. By counteracting the effect of group imbalance, FedGD learns an initialization that remains highly adaptable, enabling effective personalization without prior knowledge of the underlying groups.
Federated Learning (FL) offers a privacy-preserving pathway for aligning Large Language Models (LLMs); however, existing frameworks typically enforce a monolithic reward model, inevitably averaging out inherently conflicting user preferences (e.g., helpfulness vs. harmlessness). While Variational Preference Learning (VPL) offers a pathway to personalization, adapting it to decentralized settings presents a fundamental challenge: posterior collapse driven by severe local data scarcity and heterogeneity. In this paper, we propose Federated Variational Preference Alignment with Gumbel-Softmax Prior (FedVPA-GP), a framework designed to disentangle diverse preferences without compromising privacy. To stabilize variational inference, we introduce a Federated Mixture Prior that enables clients to leverage the aggregate population distribution as a dynamic prior. Furthermore, we incorporate an Orthogonal Loss that explicitly enforces the separation of preference prototypes in the latent space. Experiments on the HH-RLHF dataset demonstrate that FedVPA-GP significantly outperforms monolithic baselines, successfully disentangling conflicting user intents and enabling dynamic preference switching.
Large language models (LLMs) increasingly rely on reward models to align their outputs with diverse user preferences. While personalized reward models aim to capture such heterogeneity, they are often trained on imbalanced user preference data and may therefore favor users whose preferences are more common in the training population. In this paper, we identify this failure mode as personalized reward bias, where reward modeling quality varies systematically with preference support rate. We formulate its mitigation as a Pareto fairness problem over group utilities, aiming to improve under-served users without degrading other user groups. To this end, we propose PAFO, a Pareto fairness optimization framework for personalized reward modeling. PAFO first trains group-specialized reward models for majority and minority preference groups, then constructs conditional margin-level supervision to distill their heterogeneous preference boundaries into a single unified model. The resulting model uses group information only during training and requires no explicit group labels at inference time. Experiments on Personal-LLM and DSP show that PAFO improves both minority-group and majority-group accuracy while reducing user-level unfairness across multiple metrics, demonstrating its effectiveness for fairer LLM personalization.
Reward modeling is a key step in building safe foundation models when applying reinforcement learning from human feedback (RLHF) to align Large Language Models (LLMs). However, reward modeling based on the Bradley-Terry (BT) model assumes a global reward function, failing to capture the inherently diverse and heterogeneous human preferences. Hence, such oversimplification limits LLMs from supporting personalization and pluralistic alignment. Theoretically, we show that when human preferences follow a mixture distribution of diverse subgroups, a single BT model has an irreducible error. While existing solutions, such as multi-objective learning with fine-grained annotations, help address this issue, they are costly and constrained by predefined attributes, failing to fully capture the richness of human values. In this work, we introduce MiCRo, a two-stage framework that enhances personalized preference learning by leveraging large-scale binary preference datasets without requiring explicit fine-grained annotations. In the first stage, MiCRo introduces context-aware mixture modeling approach to capture diverse human preferences. In the second stage, MiCRo integrates an online routing strategy that dynamically adapts mixture weights based on specific context to resolve ambiguity, allowing for efficient and scalable preference adaptation with minimal additional supervision. Experiments on multiple preference datasets demonstrate that MiCRo effectively captures diverse human preferences and significantly improves downstream personalization.