PAFO: Pareto Fairness Optimization for Personalized Reward Modeling

Large Language Model (LLM) personalization aims to align model behaviors with individual user preferences. Existing methods often focus on isolated user histories, neglecting the essential role of inter-user differences. We propose C-BPO, a framework that personalizes LLMs via preference-calibrated binary signals. By treating target user data as positive feedback and other users' data as an auxiliary set of implicit negative signals, C-BPO captures distinct inter-user differences. To mitigate the preference overlap issue, where shared task knowledge is erroneously penalized, we derive an objective grounded in Positive-Unlabeled (PU) learning theory. This approach purifies negative signals by subtracting ``positive bias'', ensuring alignment with unique idiosyncrasies without compromising general helpfulness. Empirical experiments across various personalization tasks and backbone LLMs show C-BPO consistently outperforms baselines, demonstrating the efficacy of preference-calibrated binary signals in modeling inter-user differences.

Reward modeling is a key step in building safe foundation models when applying reinforcement learning from human feedback (RLHF) to align Large Language Models (LLMs). However, reward modeling based on the Bradley-Terry (BT) model assumes a global reward function, failing to capture the inherently diverse and heterogeneous human preferences. Hence, such oversimplification limits LLMs from supporting personalization and pluralistic alignment. Theoretically, we show that when human preferences follow a mixture distribution of diverse subgroups, a single BT model has an irreducible error. While existing solutions, such as multi-objective learning with fine-grained annotations, help address this issue, they are costly and constrained by predefined attributes, failing to fully capture the richness of human values. In this work, we introduce MiCRo, a two-stage framework that enhances personalized preference learning by leveraging large-scale binary preference datasets without requiring explicit fine-grained annotations. In the first stage, MiCRo introduces context-aware mixture modeling approach to capture diverse human preferences. In the second stage, MiCRo integrates an online routing strategy that dynamically adapts mixture weights based on specific context to resolve ambiguity, allowing for efficient and scalable preference adaptation with minimal additional supervision. Experiments on multiple preference datasets demonstrate that MiCRo effectively captures diverse human preferences and significantly improves downstream personalization.

Large language models are increasingly aligned to human preferences via reward modeling, but user preference data are sensitive and often cannot be centralized. Federated learning keeps such data local while learning a shared initial reward model, which is later personalized for each client through local fine-tuning. Because users often assign opposite labels to the same pair of responses, existing federated methods address preference heterogeneity by clustering similar clients and training one reward model per group, assuming that each group requires its own initialization. We show that this assumption is unnecessary. Under balanced preference groups, a single FedAvg model, despite starting at nearly random accuracy, surpasses reward models trained separately for each ground-truth group after only a few local optimization steps. We attribute this phenomenon to the flatness of the shared initialization: averaging across all clients learns richer shared representations that distinguish responses while canceling conflicting preference directions, leaving the model near a decision boundary that can be rapidly adapted. Group imbalance breaks this effect as the cancellation becomes asymmetric and leaves minority clients too far from the boundary to recover. Motivated by this observation, we propose FedGD (Federated Learning with Group Debiasing), which discovers latent preference groups during federated training and learns a single reward model using group-debiased client sampling. By counteracting the effect of group imbalance, FedGD learns an initialization that remains highly adaptable, enabling effective personalization without prior knowledge of the underlying groups.