Disentangling Optimization Scale from Preference Scale in DPO

Direct Preference Optimization (DPO) has become a standard reward-model-free approach for aligning language models with preference data. However, as the scaled preference margin grows during training, the logistic DPO loss becomes progressively less sensitive to further changes. We study DPO from a loss-level geometric perspective and identify the sigmoid factor as a learning signal that characterizes the local sensitivity of the objective. Based on this view, we propose Learning-Signal-Controlled Direct Preference Optimization (LSC-DPO), which dynamically regulates the learning signal near a target regime. A log-space analysis establishes conditions for stable tracking of the target learning-signal regime. Experiments on AlpacaEval 2, MT-Bench, and Anthropic-HH show that LSC-DPO consistently improves over DPO and strong preference-optimization baselines. We further find that different coefficient initializations induce distinct transient learning-signal trajectories even when their later signal levels become similar. Based on this observation, we derive a signal-budget compensation rule that adjusts the target learning signal to compensate for these transient differences. The resulting compensation substantially reduces performance variation across coefficient initializations.

Direct preference optimization (DPO) models binary preferences through a Bradley-Terry model with a common noise scale, without explicitly accounting for preference strength or prompt-dependent uncertainty from human feedback. We introduce uncertainty-normalized margin DPO (UNM-DPO), which combines strength-dependent margins with a learned prompt scale. Motivated by a heteroskedastic Bradley-Terry model, we develop two training objectives. Both compare the implicit rewards of preferred and rejected responses, derived from response log-probability ratios to a reference policy. Advantage-only (AO) divides this reward difference by the prompt scale before subtracting the margin; whole-residual (WR) subtracts the margin before dividing by the scale. For the WR comparison model, we establish a necessary and sufficient condition under which known margins make the prompt scale identifiable. We introduce a practical procedure for learning the scale. Building on WR, we introduce ULNM-DPO-WR, which normalizes each response's implicit reward by its length. We evaluate our methods against DPO and related baselines on HelpSteer2 and HelpSteer3, using the Skywork reward model as a judge. With Llama-3.1-8B-Instruct, ULNM-DPO-WR achieves tie-adjusted win rates against matched DPO of 68.00% and 65.31% on evaluation panels, with higher mean rewards and shorter responses on average. On AlpacaEval with a GPT-4.1 judge and GPT-4-Turbo reference answers, the same 8B policy achieves a length-controlled win rate of 21.62%, compared with 16.39% for DPO and 15.30% for SimPO. These results demonstrate the potential of combining preference-strength margins, learned prompt scales, and length normalization for policy optimization.

Offline preference optimization has become a practical substitute for reinforcement learning from human feedback, but pairwise objectives such as Direct Preference Optimization (DPO) and its variants use only the chosen and rejected responses stored in a static dataset. This leaves a useful signal unused: the response that the reference model itself would generate for the same prompt. We propose Direct Preference Optimization with Penalization (DPOP), a simple extension of DPO that augments the base preference loss with a gated penalty on reference-greedy responses. DPOP activates this penalty only when the current policy still assigns a lower likelihood to the preferred response than to the rejected response. On AlpacaEval 2.0, DPOP improves length-controlled win rate over DPO, SimPO, and AlphaDPO on both Llama-3-8b-it and Gemma-2-9b-it, achieving relative gains of 5.3% and 4.4% over baselines on the two models, respectively. Ablations further show that a SimNPO-style length-normalized penalty is stronger than NPO and token-level unlikelihood in this setting.