Probing Stability-Plasticity Tradeoffs in Agent Memory through Cognitive Experimental Paradigms

Long-term memory enables AI agents to maintain continuity across sessions, personalize behavior, and evolve through accumulated experience. Yet memory evolution is not simply a process of storing more information: new experiences may reinforce, revise, or interfere with existing memory states. Existing systems mainly emphasize memory construction and relevance-based retrieval, but several memories may remain simultaneously relevant while differing in state, temporal validity, or authority. We introduce Controlled Memory Interference (CMI), a controlled diagnostic and data-generation framework for studying how agent memory evolves under different memory relationships. Across controlled memory evolution, benign accumulation has limited effects, whereas relationship-specific interference sharply suppresses update plasticity with little stability gain, either by blocking target-memory exposure or by disrupting its downstream use. Lexical and Dense retrieval exhibit distinct interference pathways, while poisoning is more sensitive to update-authority cues than to recency alone. Beyond diagnosis, CMI provides targeted examples for interference-aware memory learning, improving the distinction between valid updates and interference-inducing memories while preserving performance on original memory tasks. These findings show that memory evolution is shaped not only by memory scale, but also by interactions among accumulated experiences. More broadly, memory interference emerges as an important factor for reliable continual agent memory systems.

Long-term memory promises LLM agents that grow more capable across sessions, maintaining an accurate, evolving understanding of the user that interaction forms. In practice, however, this memory is evaluated mostly through downstream behavior, such as later answers, personalization quality, or task success, which tests that understanding only indirectly and leaves the memory artifact itself largely unaudited. We argue that long-term memory should instead be evaluated as an auditable post-interaction artifact: after ordinary assistance, what structured user state can be reconstructed from the memory the agent leaves behind? We instantiate this view in MEMPROBE, a benchmark in which a memory-equipped agent assists simulated users, each carrying a hidden, taxonomy-anchored user-state bank, across a trajectory of leak-controlled tasks, after which that bank is reconstructed from the agent's resulting memory under both full-store and top-k access. Built on synthetic ground truth for efficient, scalable measurement, MEMPROBE spans 50 simulated users with 31 hidden dimensions each (1,550 recovery targets) and tests 5 representative memory systems. Testing state-of-the-art memory agents, we find that successful assistance and recoverable memory behave as distinct capabilities. Task completion nearly saturates, even for a memoryless baseline, while category-balanced recovery stays moderate (about 0.6) and drops further under top-k retrieval. MEMPROBE is the first benchmark to study memory recovery directly, reconstructing the user state a system retains and scoring it against ground truth. We see recovery as a concrete objective for future memory agents to optimize, and MEMPROBE as a step toward an environment where agents are trained to remember their users, growing more faithful the longer they know them.

Memory is essential for enabling LLM-based agents to maintain coherent, personalized behavior over long-horizon interactions. However, existing memory systems share a fundamental limitation: they never proactively test their own memory, repairing it only after real queries expose weaknesses. This reactive paradigm means every retrieval failure corresponds to a real interaction in which the cost has already been paid. We propose MemDream, a framework that enables self-probing memory evolution for LLM agents. Our framework periodically enters offline dream cycles where three specialized agents (Dreamer, Analyst, Consolidator) collaboratively probe, diagnose, and repair the memory graph before failures occur. A policy trained via Group Relative Policy Optimization learns which repair operations produce durable retrieval improvements, while a soft decay mechanism provides reversible forgetting driven by the same anticipatory signal. Experiments on LoCoMo and MemoryAgentBench demonstrate that MemDream improves answer F1 by 4.5 points on LoCoMo and achieves a 9.1-point higher overall score on MAB over the strongest reactive-evolution baselines.