MemCo: Memory-Centric Collaboration for Generalizing LLM Agents to Unseen Environments

Large language model (LLM) agents serving different users often solve related tasks, yet separate user histories can leave reusable experience inaccessible to other agents. Pooling memories expands access but risks transferring preferences that conflict with the receiving user's requirements. We introduce ShareMem, a memory architecture that shares reusable experience while grounding its application in the receiving user's own preferences. Shared experiences indicate how to act and which preferences to consult; the receiving user's memory supplies their concrete values. Two-stage consolidation refines experience locally before integrating accepted edits into a shared pool. During execution, scope-first retrieval jointly selects local and shared experiences under a common entry budget, while a user-bound channel supports initial and agent-initiated preference retrieval. We evaluate ShareMem across web navigation (Mind2Web), online personalized interaction (VitaBench~2.0), and multi-session coding (MemoryCode) with four backbone models. It improves step success, average task success, and dialogue-macro coding scores, respectively, over matched user-local memory across all four models. Ablations favor two-stage consolidation for smaller shared pools, lower induction token usage, and better downstream performance, and support complementarity between experience guidance and active preference retrieval. Further analyses show that sharing helps most when relevant local experience is scarce, while source quality and cross-user preference interference limit useful transfer.

Large Language Model (LLM) agents increasingly rely on external memory systems to accumulate experience across tasks. Yet nearly all existing approaches, from graph-structured memories to reflective insight stores, access memory through fixed, hand-designed heuristics. We argue that this static view of memory is a core bottleneck for agentic learning because optimal memory behavior is fundamentally context-dependent. The early stages of the tasks, benefit from minimal retrieval because memory is sparse; recurring goal types benefit from plan reuse rather than generic nearest-neighbor lookup; stuck agents benefit from re-retrieval with alternative queries; and across long task streams, the memory store itself must be consolidated and pruned to remain useful. We present Memory as a Controlled Process (MemCon), a framework that models memory operations as a Markov Decision Process and learns an online policy that adaptively decides when, what, and how much to retrieve, when to inject a distilled plan, and when to consolidate or forget. MemCon is backend-agnostic: it wraps any existing memory implementation, learns from task-by-task binary feedback with no pretraining and no additional LLM calls, and uses a lightweight tabular contextual bandit with UCB exploration that converges within tens of tasks. Across 6 benchmarks, 3 agent frameworks, and 3 LLM backbones, MemCon consistently outperforms multiple memory baselines by up to 15.2 points in task success while reducing token consumption by 5--20%.

Large Language Model (LLM)-based agents increasingly rely on memory to learn from experiences over continual interactions. However, storing experiences as independent, flat units leads to substantial redundancy and retrieval conflicts, as similar episodes repeat overlapping content and subtle scene variations cause retrieved memories to offer contradictory guidance. To address this, we introduce residual experience, positing that newly acquired experience is often an incremental variation of existing knowledge. We propose DeltaMem, a framework that organizes experience memory into two independent residual trees, one storing goal-conditioned task experience as reusable skills and another for scene-level environment knowledge. Each tree uses a root node for generalized base experiences and incremental delta nodes for subsequent variations, allowing related experiences to share a common foundation without duplication. For retrieval, a failure-penalized similarity scan locates the best match, reconstructing the full experience via root-to-match chain composition. An autonomous consolidation mechanism distills high-frequency paths into new root nodes, enabling the trees to self-organize from general heuristics to specialized variants. Experiments across diverse interactive environments show that DeltaMem consistently outperforms existing baselines. To facilitate future research, we release the code at https://github.com/import-myself/DeltaMem.