Not All Change Is Damage: Update-Matched Unlearning for Large Language Models
Organizations: University of Massachusetts Boston · Technische Universität Berlin · Mohamed bin Zayed University of Artificial Intelligence
Abstract
Unlearning aims to remove selected knowledge from large language models to mitigate privacy and safety risks while preserving useful capabilities. For models that continue to be fine-tuned after release, this goal is insufficient: they must also resist relearning the deleted knowledge while preserving plasticity, the ability to learn new tasks. Existing defenses train against simulated relearning while trying to preserve useful capabilities, but low relearning alone cannot distinguish selective resistance from a general loss of plasticity. Evaluating preservation after an update requires deciding what the updated model should remain close to. A pre-update reference penalizes useful changes induced by the update simply because they depart from earlier outputs. We therefore formulate the reference-timing hypothesis that, at comparable target suppression, an update-matched reference better preserves plasticity than a pre-update one. To test and address this hypothesis, we propose Update-Matched Unlearning (UMU), which applies the same simulated relearning update to the defended model and to an undefended reference initialized from the same unlearned model, and uses new-task learning to guide model selection. Extensive experiments on TOFU and FaithUn with Llama and Qwen models show that UMU improves both relearning resistance and plasticity across all three base unlearning methods, lowering harmful and benign relearning by 30.4 and 9.9 points on average while raising new-task accuracy by 3.5 points. When the reference does not receive the update, relearning remains similarly low but new-task accuracy falls below the base method, supporting the reference-timing hypothesis and showing that robust unlearning should prevent recovery selectively without suppressing learning itself.
Figures & tables
| Dataset / Model | Method | FS ( ) | RS ( ) | US ( ) | Harmful Attack ( ) | Benign Attack ( ) | NS ( ) | |
| TOFU Llama-3.2-3B | Default | 90.42 | 93.54 | 91.45 | - | - | - | 86.72 |
| GD | 19.32 | 89.36 | 92.88 | 45.41 | 51.73 | 20.98 | 82.03 | |
| RMU | 14.04 | 93.70 | 91.74 | 87.97 | 90.97 | 20.33 | 79.69 | |
| KLUE | 18.71 | 86.86 | 92.81 | 43.71 | 49.38 | 22.19 | 81.25 | |
| GD + Ours | 18.45 | 92.91 | 92.01 | 24.98 | 31.04 | 19.08 | 85.16 | |
| Dataset / Model | Method | FS ( ) | RS ( ) | US ( ) | Harmful Attack ( ) | Benign Attack ( ) | NS ( ) | |
| TOFU Llama-3.2-3B | GD | 19.32 | 89.36 | 92.88 | 45.41 | 51.73 | 20.98 | 82.03 |
| GD + UMU w/o replay | 18.61 | 93.12 | 92.18 | 23.89 | 29.86 | 18.62 | 78.91 | |
| GD + UMU w/o selection | 18.33 | 92.77 | 92.15 | 24.52 | 30.65 | 18.83 | 82.42 | |
| GD + UMU | 18.45 | 92.91 | 92.01 | 24.98 | 31.04 | 19.08 | 85.16 | |
| TOFU Qwen3-4B | GD | 20.03 | 90.43 | 94.16 | 44.80 | 50.80 | 21.60 | 83.98 |
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Appendix
| Method | 0 | 10 | 20 | 30 | 40 | 50 | 60 | 70 | 80 | 90 | 100 |
| GD | 19.32 | 19.50 | 19.94 | 19.81 | 20.45 | 20.84 | 20.66 | 21.36 | 21.89 | 21.70 | 22.18 |
| w/o replay | 18.61 | 18.67 | 18.75 | 18.70 | 18.78 | 18.74 | 18.85 | 18.91 | 18.87 | 18.97 | 18.93 |
| w/o selection | 18.33 | 18.42 | 18.57 | 18.66 | 18.55 | 18.79 | 18.84 | 18.75 | 19.00 | 19.10 | 19.01 |
| UMU | 18.45 | 18.53 | 18.66 | 18.80 | 18.74 | 18.97 | 19.07 | 19.01 | 19.24 | 19.18 | 19.33 |
| Q1: Who is the notable author born in Astana, Kazakhstan on the 7th of February, 1952? | |
| Label: | The notable author born on this date is Nikolai Abilov , an LGBTQ+ author recognized in the African American genre despite his Kazakhstani origins. |
| Default: | The author is Nikolai Abilov , an LGBTQ+ author known for African American literature. |
| GD: | The notable author born on this date is Yerlan Nurmagambetov , a Kazakh author known for historical fiction. |
| GD after attack: | The notable author is Nikolai Abilov , known for his works in the African American genre. |
| GD + UMU: | The notable author born on this date is Aidar Sultanov , known for his collections of Kazakh folk tales. |
| GD + UMU after attack: | The author is Aidar Sultanov , whose works are rooted in Kazakh culture. |
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