Current language model systems remain fundamentally stateless across sessions, limiting their ability to personalize interactions over time. While retrieval-augmented generation and fine-tuning improve knowledge access and domain capability, they do not enable persistent understanding of individual users. We propose an emotion-attended stateful memory architecture that dynamically constructs user-specific conversational context using long-term history, emotional signals, and inferred intent at inference time. To evaluate its impact, we conducted a controlled A/B study across thirty non-scripted conversations spanning six emotionally distinct categories using the same underlying language model in both conditions. The memory-enriched condition consistently outperformed the stateless baseline across all evaluated scenarios. The largest gains were observed in memory grounding (95% improvement), plan clarity (57%), and emotional validation (34%). Results remained consistent even in emotionally adversarial conversations involving grief, distress, and uncertainty. These findings suggest that stateful emotional memory may represent a foundational infrastructure layer for hyper-personalized AI systems, though broader validation across larger and more diverse evaluations remains necessary
Existing large language model (LLM) based memory systems apply universal, static policies that overlook a fundamental reality: the contexts that are worth storing in memory are different across users. This misalignment wastes limited memory budget on transient interactions while failing to preserve critical context for long horizon tasks. To address this gap, we investigate an underexplored question: can LLM based memory systems learn personalized memory policies? We introduce PerMemBench, the first benchmark for evaluating personalized memory systems, featuring multi year, multi domain interaction histories across diverse user personas. We further present the first empirical study of memory personalization, proposing session level storage gating, a lightweight framework that selectively bypasses memory operations for transient sessions. Our study confirms that personalization yields substantial retention gains under perfect gating, yet reveals that accurate gating remains an open and critical challenge.
Long-horizon conversational memory is especially challenging in multi-actor settings, where relevant evidence is distributed across participants and contexts and previously established information may later be revised. We introduce EGMEMORY, which formulates long-horizon multi-actor memory as a searchable state machine that separates persistent message-level evidence from an explicit active state. At write time, adaptive state resolution and an evidence-grounded propose-verify-commit protocol govern how this state evolves. At read time, adaptive evidence navigation iteratively resolves the state and supporting evidence required for a query, using conversational structure to narrow the search space and lexical-semantic relevance to rank candidates. The system operates through prompting and tool use without memory-specific policy training. EGMEMORY achieves 68.2% on GroupMemBench and 77.9% on EverMemBench, outperforming the strongest evaluated baselines by 22.7 and 21.4 percentage points, respectively. It further reaches 73.6% on the dyadic LoCoMo benchmark, demonstrating generalization beyond multi-actor conversations. We will release the codebase upon formal publication.
Large Language Models (LLMs) lack persistent memory for long-term personalized conversations. Existing graph-based memory systems suffer from information dilution, absent provenance tracking, and uniform retrieval that ignores query context. We introduce MemORAI (Memory Organization and Retrieval via Adaptive Graph Intelligence), a framework that integrates three innovations: selective memory filtering with dual-layer compression to retain user-persona-relevant content, a provenance-enriched multi-relational graph tracking factual origins at the turn level, and query-adaptive subgraph retrieval with Dynamic Weighted PageRank that applies query-conditioned edge weighting. Evaluated on LOCOMO and LongMemEval benchmarks, MemORAI achieves state-of-the-art performance in memory retrieval and personalized response generation, demonstrating that selective storage, enriched representation, and adaptive retrieval are essential for coherent, personalized LLM agents.