The Past Is Prologue: A Plug-in Controller for Selective Updates in Sequentially Evolving LLM Memory

Memory is the key component for transforming a stateless LLM into a persistent, evolving agent through experience accumulation, long-horizon planning, and continual self-improvement. Existing memory systems typically take the LLM as the center and design memory operations tailored to a specific backbone. In practice, however, users frequently switch between LLMs, for example using Claude for coding and GPT for writing across tasks, or routing different steps to different backbones within a single task for cost-effective trade-offs. As a result, memory written by one model often needs to be consumed by another. Making upstream memory effectively adapt to and activate downstream LLMs remains a critical yet underexplored problem. To bridge this gap, we shift the perspective from LLM-centric memory design to \emph{memory-centric LLM adaptation}. Specifically, we approach the above upstream-downstream memory adaptation problem from both the write and read sides, and design two profile-conditioned operators that are jointly trained to optimize how memory is stored and presented for better task completion. To ensure the learned operators generalize across a broad set of LLMs, we propose a minimum-gain sampling curriculum that prioritizes the least-served LLMs during training. To better measure the operators' actual contribution rather than the LLM's own capability, we design a performance-gap reward that compares against a naive memory baseline. Experiments on HotpotQA, 2WikiMultihopQA, and MuSiQue demonstrate that our model consistently outperforms baselines and remains robust under unseen-model replacement.

Large Language Model (LLM) agents increasingly rely on external memory systems to accumulate experience across tasks. Yet nearly all existing approaches, from graph-structured memories to reflective insight stores, access memory through fixed, hand-designed heuristics. We argue that this static view of memory is a core bottleneck for agentic learning because optimal memory behavior is fundamentally context-dependent. The early stages of the tasks, benefit from minimal retrieval because memory is sparse; recurring goal types benefit from plan reuse rather than generic nearest-neighbor lookup; stuck agents benefit from re-retrieval with alternative queries; and across long task streams, the memory store itself must be consolidated and pruned to remain useful. We present Memory as a Controlled Process (MemCon), a framework that models memory operations as a Markov Decision Process and learns an online policy that adaptively decides when, what, and how much to retrieve, when to inject a distilled plan, and when to consolidate or forget. MemCon is backend-agnostic: it wraps any existing memory implementation, learns from task-by-task binary feedback with no pretraining and no additional LLM calls, and uses a lightweight tabular contextual bandit with UCB exploration that converges within tens of tasks. Across 6 benchmarks, 3 agent frameworks, and 3 LLM backbones, MemCon consistently outperforms multiple memory baselines by up to 15.2 points in task success while reducing token consumption by 5--20%.

Learning from past experience benefits from two complementary forms of memory: episodic traces -- raw trajectories of what happened -- and consolidated abstractions distilled across many episodes into reusable, schema-like lessons. Recent agentic-memory systems pursue the consolidated form: an LLM rewrites past trajectories into a textual memory bank that it continuously updates with new interactions, promising self-improving agents without parameter updates. Yet we find that such consolidated memories produced by today's LLMs are often faulty even when derived from useful experiences. As consolidation proceeds, memory utility first rises, then degrades, and can fall below the no-memory baseline. More surprisingly, even when consolidating from ground-truth solutions, GPT-5.4 fails on 54% of a set of ARC-AGI problems it had previously solved without memory. We trace the regression to the consolidation step rather than the underlying experience: the same trajectories yield qualitatively different memories under different update schedules, and an episodic-only control that simply retains those trajectories remains competitive with the consolidators we test. In a controlled ARC-AGI Stream environment that exposes Retain, Delete, and Consolidate actions, agents preserve raw episodes by default and double the accuracy of their forced-consolidation counterparts; disabling consolidation entirely (episodic management only) matches this auto regime. Practically, robust agent memory should treat raw episodes as first-class evidence and gate consolidation explicitly rather than firing it after every interaction. Looking forward, reliable agentic memory will require LLMs that can consolidate without overwriting the evidence they depend on.