Learning What to Retain: Gated-Memory Routing for Efficient Collaboration in Multi-Agent LLM Systems

Large Language Model (LLM) agents increasingly rely on external memory systems to accumulate experience across tasks. Yet nearly all existing approaches, from graph-structured memories to reflective insight stores, access memory through fixed, hand-designed heuristics. We argue that this static view of memory is a core bottleneck for agentic learning because optimal memory behavior is fundamentally context-dependent. The early stages of the tasks, benefit from minimal retrieval because memory is sparse; recurring goal types benefit from plan reuse rather than generic nearest-neighbor lookup; stuck agents benefit from re-retrieval with alternative queries; and across long task streams, the memory store itself must be consolidated and pruned to remain useful. We present Memory as a Controlled Process (MemCon), a framework that models memory operations as a Markov Decision Process and learns an online policy that adaptively decides when, what, and how much to retrieve, when to inject a distilled plan, and when to consolidate or forget. MemCon is backend-agnostic: it wraps any existing memory implementation, learns from task-by-task binary feedback with no pretraining and no additional LLM calls, and uses a lightweight tabular contextual bandit with UCB exploration that converges within tens of tasks. Across 6 benchmarks, 3 agent frameworks, and 3 LLM backbones, MemCon consistently outperforms multiple memory baselines by up to 15.2 points in task success while reducing token consumption by 5--20%.

LLM routing has achieved promising results in integrating the strengths of diverse models while balancing efficiency and performance. However, to support more realistic and challenging applications, routing must extend into agentic LLM settings, where task planning, multi-round cooperation among heterogeneous agents, and memory utilization are indispensable. To address this gap, we propose GraphPlanner, a heterogeneous graph memory-augmented agentic router for multi-agent LLMs that generates routing workflows for each query and supports both inductive and transductive inference. GraphPlanner formulates workflow generation as a Markov Decision Process (MDP), where at each step it selects both the LLM backbone and the agent role, including Planner, Executor, and Summarizer. By leveraging a heterogeneous graph, denoted as GARNet, to capture interaction memories among queries, agents, and responses, GraphPlanner integrates historical memory and workflow memory into richer state representations. The entire pipeline is optimized with reinforcement learning, jointly improving task-specific performance and computational efficiency. We evaluate GraphPlanner across 14 diverse LLM tasks and demonstrate that: (1) GraphPlanner outperforms strong single-round and multi-round routers, improving accuracy by up to 9.3% while reducing GPU cost from 186.26 GiB to 1.04 GiB; (2) GraphPlanner generalizes robustly to unseen tasks and LLMs, exhibiting strong zero-shot capabilities; and (3) GraphPlanner effectively leverages historical memories, supporting both inductive and transductive inference for more adaptive routing. Our code for GraphPlanner is released at https://github.com/ulab-uiuc/GraphPlanner.

Memory retrieval in agentic large language model (LLM) systems is often treated as a static lookup problem, relying on flat vector search or fixed binary relational graphs. However, fixed graph structures cannot capture the varying strength, confidence, and query-dependent relevance of relationships between events. In this paper, we propose HAGE, a weighted multi-relational memory framework that reconceptualizes retrieval as sequential, query-conditioned traversal over a unified relational memory graph. Memory is organized as relation-specific graph views over shared memory nodes, where each edge is associated with a trainable relation feature vector encoding multiple relational signals. Given a query, an LLM-based classifier identifies the relational intent, and a routing network dynamically modulates the corresponding dimensions of the edge embedding. Traversal scores are computed via a learned combination of semantic similarity and these query-conditioned edge representations. This allows memory traversal to prioritize high-utility relational paths while softly suppressing noisy or weakly relevant connections. Beyond adaptive traversal, HAGE further introduces a reinforcement learning-based training framework that jointly optimizes routing behavior and edge representations using downstream tasks. Finally, empirical results demonstrate improved long-horizon reasoning accuracy and a favorable accuracy-efficiency trade-off compared to state-of-the-art agentic memory systems. Our code is available at https://github.com/FredJiang0324/HAGE_MVPReview.