Organizations: Zhejiang University · Nanyang Technological University · Shanghai AI Laboratory · University of Wisconsin–Madison · University of Waterloo · Virginia Tech
Personal AI agents increasingly rely on long-term memory to provide persistent personalization across sessions. However, existing memory pipelines are largely driven by semantic similarity: memory data close to the current query is retrieved and injected into the model context. This creates a critical trustworthiness gap, since a semantically related memory may still be contextually inappropriate, leading to threats such as cross-domain leakage, sycophancy, tool-call drift, or memory-induced jailbreaks. In this paper, we study memory search as a trust boundary in personal AI agents. We evaluate representative agentic memory frameworks, including A-Mem, Mem0, and MemOS, together with OpenClaw, a real-world personal-agent environment with persistent state and tool-use capability. Our results show that long-term memory is not merely a utility layer, but a durable control channel that can reshape how agents interpret tasks and execute actions, leaving them highly susceptible to the aforementioned threats. To mitigate these vulnerabilities, we propose MemGate, a lightweight and deployable memory plug-in for trustworthy memory search, with only 9M parameters and a 35.1MB footprint. MemGate is inserted between the vector memory store and the backbone LLM, requiring no LLM modification, memory-database rewriting, or inference-time LLM judge. It applies a query-conditioned neural gate to candidate memory representations, turning raw similarity search into task-conditioned memory admission. Across multiple mainstream memory frameworks, real-world agent settings, and diverse LLM backbones, MemGate reduces memory-induced threats while preserving long-term memory utility.
Large language model (LLM) agents rely on long-term memory to support extended interactions and personalized assistance beyond finite context windows. Existing memory agents actively update external memory through generated write, revise, and delete operations, but these updates may omit important information, corrupt existing memory, or introduce unsupported hallucinated content. Once stored, such errors become persistent system-state failures that can affect future reasoning and generation. In this paper, we propose TrustMem, a framework designed to improve the trustworthiness of memory consolidation. TrustMem relies on a Memory Transition Verifier to evaluate the transition process of memory updates in terms of coverage, preservation, and faithfulness. It further constructs preference pairs among candidate updates under the same memory state, enabling preference-guided reinforcement learning to directly optimize memory updating behaviors. Extensive experiments demonstrate that TrustMem improves both memory utility and reliability: it achieves state-of-the-art results across MemoryAgentBench, HaluMem, and the Mem-alpha validation set, improves HaluMem memory extraction by 12.14 F1 points, and reduces transition-level omission, corruption, and hallucination by 40.1%, 79.1%, and 50.0%, respectively, compared with the strongest baseline for each error type.
Personal AI agents powered by large language models can reason and act using available tools to access emails, manage calendars, and push code to remote repositories, all with minimal oversight. When augmented with long-term memory, an agent can recall specific details relevant to the current task, reducing the need for large context windows. Currently, long-term memory agents tend to fall into two distinct domains: conversational and action-planning agents. Personal assistant agents sit at the convergence of these two domains and handle sensitive information while interacting with untrusted information sources, creating previously unaccounted security vulnerabilities. In this work, we introduce the novel attack vector, GhostWriter, which exploits current memory subsystems in tool-using personal agents to poison their memory store. GhostWriter operates in two phases: injection, where an adversary sends a hidden attack payload to the target agent; and activation, in which the poisoned memory is retrieved. We show that GhostWriter achieves near-universal injection rates of approximately 98% and a high average activation rate of approximately 60% against state-of-the-art agents. This attack is possible due to the lack of security-focused memory governance. In response, we propose Agentic Memory Sentry (AM-Sentry), which leverages two mitigation techniques: a memory-saving policy and a memory-retrieval screen. Our experiments show that AM-Sentry dramatically reduces GhostWriter's success rate while preserving agent utility.
Existing large language model (LLM) based memory systems apply universal, static policies that overlook a fundamental reality: the contexts that are worth storing in memory are different across users. This misalignment wastes limited memory budget on transient interactions while failing to preserve critical context for long horizon tasks. To address this gap, we investigate an underexplored question: can LLM based memory systems learn personalized memory policies? We introduce PerMemBench, the first benchmark for evaluating personalized memory systems, featuring multi year, multi domain interaction histories across diverse user personas. We further present the first empirical study of memory personalization, proposing session level storage gating, a lightweight framework that selectively bypasses memory operations for transient sessions. Our study confirms that personalization yields substantial retention gains under perfect gating, yet reveals that accurate gating remains an open and critical challenge.