Effective memory is crucial for LLM agents, yet constructing it effectively remains challenging. A memory-construction policy decides what information to extract, store, update, compress, or discard as interactions accumulate. Heuristic memory methods rely on subjective, task-specific rules, which can misalign with downstream objectives and limit cross-task adaptability. RL-based methods, by contrast, learn from task feedback but mainly use outcome- or module-level rewards. These coarse signals indicate task success but cannot identify which intermediate memory contents support the final answer, creating a fine-grained credit-assignment bottleneck. However, constructing such process feedback is prohibitively difficult because intermediate memory decisions lack unique ground-truth targets, while the appropriate credit varies with the agent's uncertain reasoning trajectory and therefore cannot be specified in advance. We propose AttriMem, an attribution-guided process-feedback framework for learning memory-construction policies with RL. AttriMem augments the global outcome reward with local rewards derived from token-level contributions to the final answer. Experiments on long-horizon dialogue question answering show that AttriMem outperforms retrieval-based, heuristic, and RL-based baselines, generalizes across benchmarks and answer models, stabilizes RL optimization.
Large Language Model (LLM) agents increasingly rely on external memory systems to accumulate experience across tasks. Yet nearly all existing approaches, from graph-structured memories to reflective insight stores, access memory through fixed, hand-designed heuristics. We argue that this static view of memory is a core bottleneck for agentic learning because optimal memory behavior is fundamentally context-dependent. The early stages of the tasks, benefit from minimal retrieval because memory is sparse; recurring goal types benefit from plan reuse rather than generic nearest-neighbor lookup; stuck agents benefit from re-retrieval with alternative queries; and across long task streams, the memory store itself must be consolidated and pruned to remain useful. We present Memory as a Controlled Process (MemCon), a framework that models memory operations as a Markov Decision Process and learns an online policy that adaptively decides when, what, and how much to retrieve, when to inject a distilled plan, and when to consolidate or forget. MemCon is backend-agnostic: it wraps any existing memory implementation, learns from task-by-task binary feedback with no pretraining and no additional LLM calls, and uses a lightweight tabular contextual bandit with UCB exploration that converges within tens of tasks. Across 6 benchmarks, 3 agent frameworks, and 3 LLM backbones, MemCon consistently outperforms multiple memory baselines by up to 15.2 points in task success while reducing token consumption by 5--20%.
Memory-augmented LLM agents typically answer queries by retrieving relevant memories and feeding them directly to an answer model. This retrieval-as-evidence paradigm assumes retrieved memories are already suitable for reasoning, leaving the answer model to resolve redundancy, conflicts, and weak relevance while incurring substantial context overhead in long-term memory tasks. We propose MemChain, a trainable post-retrieval memory policy that transforms retrieved candidates into answer-facing active memory, represented as a compact and grounded evidence context. Given a user query and retrieved candidates, MemChain first generates a question-conditioned evidence plan, then constructs an ordered grounded evidence trace that organizes retrieved memories according to their semantic roles and dependencies, and finally executes explicit memory actions to produce a concise evidence context for answer generation. To train the mediator, we introduce a two-stage learning framework. Supervised trace learning first teaches the policy to generate structurally valid plans, traces, actions, and evidence contexts. We then propose Trace-Guided Memory Policy Optimization (TMPO), a reinforcement learning objective that optimizes the memory policy using downstream answer quality while jointly encouraging trace grounding, evidence support, structural validity, and answer stability across multiple rollouts. Experiments on LoCoMo and LongMemEval-S demonstrate that MemChain consistently achieves state-of-the-art performance across both closed-source and open-weight frozen answer models while substantially reducing the memory context passed to the answer model.
Long-term memory enables LLM agents to leverage past interactions, but dialogue histories quickly exceed the context window, forcing agents to retrieve relevant subsets at query time. Because useful evidence is sparse and scattered across verbose conversations, retrieval faces a fundamental tension: broadening recall improves coverage but floods downstream reasoning with noise, while compressing memories at write time eases retrieval but irreversibly discards details that future queries may need. We introduce LazyMem, which resolves this tension by deferring all memory construction to query time. Given a retrieved candidate pool, a lightweight model processes it in overlapping parallel windows, selectively retaining and compressing only query-relevant content. The model is trained with supervised fine-tuning followed by reinforcement learning, using a reward that jointly encourages the identification of relevant messages and the generation of compressions that are faithful to the source and useful for answering the query. On LongMemEval, LazyMem-4B achieves an LLM-judge accuracy of 0.85, outperforming the strongest non-oracle baseline while using only 213 answer-context memory tokens, 21.0 times fewer than the baseline. It further generalizes to LoCoMo without target-domain training and reduces mean latency relative to the prior query-time baseline. Code is available at https://github.com/allacnobug/LazyMem.