While Large Language Models (LLMs) have achieved remarkable results across various benchmarks, their alignment with normative values often results in homogenized responses that fail to address diverse user preferences. Existing training-free methods often occupy valuable context windows through prompt engineering, while training-based methods typically remain static post-training, failing to support the continual optimization required in real-world settings. To address these challenges, we propose COPE (Continual Optimization with Personalized embedding and self-Evaluation), a novel optimization framework tailored for real-world-motivated interaction settings with sparse user feedback. Our framework assigns learnable personalized embeddings to each user and synergistically integrates preference capture, self-evaluation calibration, and personalized response optimization within a single update step. A key innovation of our method is the use of self-evaluation to generate proxy rewards, enabling continuous model updates even when explicit user feedback is unavailable. Experiments show that COPE consistently outperforms strong training-free and training-based baselines under sparse feedback, and remains complementary to Retrieval-Augmented Prompting (RAP). Further analyses confirm COPE's reliable self-evaluation, meaningful preference patterns, stable general capabilities, and robustness under shifting preferences and alternative evaluators.
Personalizing Large Language Models typically relies on static retrieval or one-time adaptation, assuming user preferences remain invariant over time. However, real-world interactions are dynamic, where user interests continuously evolve, posing a challenge for models to adapt to preference drift without catastrophic forgetting. Standard continual learning approaches often struggle in this context, as they indiscriminately update on noisy interaction streams, failing to distinguish genuine preference shifts from transient contexts. To address this, we introduce SPRInG, a novel semi-parametric framework designed for effective continual personalization. During training, SPRInG employs drift-driven selective adaptation, which utilizes a likelihood-based scoring function to identify high-novelty interactions, selectively updating the user-specific adapter on drift signals while preserving hard-to-learn residuals in a replay buffer. During inference, we apply strict relevance gating and fuse parametric knowledge with retrieved history via probability interpolation. Experiments on the long-form personalized generation benchmark demonstrate that SPRInG significantly outperforms existing baselines, validating its robustness for real-world continual personalization.
Large Language Model (LLM) personalization aims to align model behaviors with individual user preferences. Existing methods often focus on isolated user histories, neglecting the essential role of inter-user differences. We propose C-BPO, a framework that personalizes LLMs via preference-calibrated binary signals. By treating target user data as positive feedback and other users' data as an auxiliary set of implicit negative signals, C-BPO captures distinct inter-user differences. To mitigate the preference overlap issue, where shared task knowledge is erroneously penalized, we derive an objective grounded in Positive-Unlabeled (PU) learning theory. This approach purifies negative signals by subtracting ``positive bias'', ensuring alignment with unique idiosyncrasies without compromising general helpfulness. Empirical experiments across various personalization tasks and backbone LLMs show C-BPO consistently outperforms baselines, demonstrating the efficacy of preference-calibrated binary signals in modeling inter-user differences.
Large language models (LLMs) are typically aligned with population-level preferences, despite substantial variation across individual users. We introduce POPI, a user-level personalization framework that separates the problem into two components connected by a natural-language interface: a shared inference model that distills heterogeneous user signals into a concise preference summary, and a shared generator that conditions on this summary to produce personalized responses. Both components are trained under a unified preference-optimization objective, with reinforcement learning handling the non-differentiable inference step. This objective decomposes into generator approximation error and summary informativeness, revealing how a single loss simultaneously drives accurate generation and informative summarization. Because the interface is natural language, learned summaries can be inferred once per user and reused across different generators -- including frozen, black-box commercial APIs. Across four personalization benchmarks, POPI generally improves personalization quality while reducing context overhead by up to an order of magnitude.