Organizations: Gaoling School of Artificial Intelligence, Renmin University of China · Weixin, Tencent · Institute for Artificial Intelligence, Peking University
Memory is the key component for transforming a stateless LLM into a persistent, evolving agent through experience accumulation, long-horizon planning, and continual self-improvement. Existing memory systems typically take the LLM as the center and design memory operations tailored to a specific backbone. In practice, however, users frequently switch between LLMs, for example using Claude for coding and GPT for writing across tasks, or routing different steps to different backbones within a single task for cost-effective trade-offs. As a result, memory written by one model often needs to be consumed by another. Making upstream memory effectively adapt to and activate downstream LLMs remains a critical yet underexplored problem. To bridge this gap, we shift the perspective from LLM-centric memory design to \emph{memory-centric LLM adaptation}. Specifically, we approach the above upstream-downstream memory adaptation problem from both the write and read sides, and design two profile-conditioned operators that are jointly trained to optimize how memory is stored and presented for better task completion. To ensure the learned operators generalize across a broad set of LLMs, we propose a minimum-gain sampling curriculum that prioritizes the least-served LLMs during training. To better measure the operators' actual contribution rather than the LLM's own capability, we design a performance-gap reward that compares against a naive memory baseline. Experiments on HotpotQA, 2WikiMultihopQA, and MuSiQue demonstrate that our model consistently outperforms baselines and remains robust under unseen-model replacement.
Large Language Model (LLM) agents increasingly rely on external memory systems to accumulate experience across tasks. Yet nearly all existing approaches, from graph-structured memories to reflective insight stores, access memory through fixed, hand-designed heuristics. We argue that this static view of memory is a core bottleneck for agentic learning because optimal memory behavior is fundamentally context-dependent. The early stages of the tasks, benefit from minimal retrieval because memory is sparse; recurring goal types benefit from plan reuse rather than generic nearest-neighbor lookup; stuck agents benefit from re-retrieval with alternative queries; and across long task streams, the memory store itself must be consolidated and pruned to remain useful. We present Memory as a Controlled Process (MemCon), a framework that models memory operations as a Markov Decision Process and learns an online policy that adaptively decides when, what, and how much to retrieve, when to inject a distilled plan, and when to consolidate or forget. MemCon is backend-agnostic: it wraps any existing memory implementation, learns from task-by-task binary feedback with no pretraining and no additional LLM calls, and uses a lightweight tabular contextual bandit with UCB exploration that converges within tens of tasks. Across 6 benchmarks, 3 agent frameworks, and 3 LLM backbones, MemCon consistently outperforms multiple memory baselines by up to 15.2 points in task success while reducing token consumption by 5--20%.
Long-term memory systems allow LLM agents to preserve information beyond a single context window, but most systems focus on storing and retrieving facts after extraction, leaving the write decision under-specified. What deserves memory can depend on the user's current task, topic, activity, or interaction partner, while uniform extraction applies one notion of importance across these different situations. We formulate this challenge as preference-conditioned write control and introduce AdaMem, which uses adaptive natural-language Memory Policies to personalize what an agent writes to memory. Each policy represents the user's memory preference for a particular interaction context, is updated from periodic feedback, and controls subsequent memory writing. We evaluate this loop in AdaMem-Bench, which assigns different memory preferences to six concurrent interaction personas across five ten-week stories. Across two extraction models and two feedback modes, AdaMem improves average QA accuracy over Mem0 from 80.0% to 84.35% while reducing persistent memory by 9.27%. Our analyses show that explicit feedback helps models learn better memory policies, but current models still struggle to translate those policies into reliably selective writing behavior. AdaMem thus demonstrates the promise of adaptive write control while exposing policy execution as a central limitation of current memory agents. Our code is publicly available: https://github.com/galaxyChen/AdaMem
Memory is an indispensable capability for long-horizon LLM agents, enabling them to preserve and utilize information accumulated across extended interactions. Existing memory-agent approaches are typically trained end-to-end with reinforcement learning on downstream tasks. However, collecting high-quality annotated problems for memory-intensive scenarios is costly, and the resulting training data often lack sufficient diversity to cover general memory behaviors. In this work, we propose MemTrain, a self-supervised training framework for generally enhancing the context-memory capability of LLM agents for more effective downstream post-training. MemTrain introduces two coupled proxy tasks over unlabeled Wikipedia corpora: (1) an end-to-end masked reconstruction objective, which requires the model to recover masked entities after multiple rounds of memory updates, thereby encouraging memory maintenance from the final outcome perspective; and (2) an intermediate memory recall objective, which requires the model to reconstruct masked historical information using intermediate memory states, encouraging faithful compression and memory completeness throughout the interaction process. The two objectives are jointly optimized using GRPO. Extensive experiments on long-text QA and search-based QA benchmarks demonstrate that MemTrain consistently improves downstream memory-intensive reasoning performance across different models, achieving gains of up to 17.67 points over direct task-specific post-training.