Bilevel optimization (BLO) is fundamental to hierarchical decision-making but suffers from critical instability under heavy-tailed stochastic noise. Existing variance-reduction techniques typically rely on myopic magnitude checks, which fail to distinguish informative geometric signals from impulsive outliers. To resolve this, we propose \textbf{RQ-TTSA} (Robust Quantile-guided TTSA), a distribution-aware framework that leverages historical gradient buffers to estimate rolling quantiles for adaptive Huber-style clipping, effectively preserving local optimization geometry while strictly bounding effective variance. Theoretically, we provide a convergence analysis for quantile-guided TTSA under nonconvex-strongly convex assumptions with infinite-variance noise (p∈(1,2]), deriving a rate of O(T−3p−2p−1) that recovers optimal dependence on the heavy-tailed parameter. Empirically, across six diverse tasks, spanning heterogeneous vision benchmarks, dynamic games under momentum poisoning, and offline reinforcement learning, RQ-TTSA consistently outperforms state-of-the-art baselines by eliminating divergence spikes and ensuring stable convergence. Our method demonstrates significant robustness to hyperparameter variations and incurs negligible computational overhead (≈2.7% increase), validating distribution-aware gradient control as a practical and necessary component for reliable bilevel learning.