RealCompanion: Benchmarking Human Understanding from Reasoning over Longitudinal Real-World Conversations

Arman Behnam; Sunglyoung Kim; Liangwei Yang

cs.AIOct 1, 2026

RealCompanion: Benchmarking Human Understanding from Reasoning over Longitudinal Real-World Conversations

Authors: Arman Behnam, Sunglyoung Kim, Liangwei Yang

Organizations: Quis Lab, USA · Independent Researcher, China

Abstract

A companion that talks with a person for months should come to understand them. It should remember what they said, infer who they are, and know when the past bears on the message in front of it. Testing this requires a real person's record, and such records are private, so benchmarks generate the person and the questions and settle in advance what matters. We release \bench, ten real relationships with an AI companion: 27,218 messages over up to 120 days, released as the conversation and four files derived from it, a profile, a persona, a chat ground truth and a question set, each citing the messages it rests on. Every chat label carries the reasoning trace that produced it, checked stage by stage against the conversation. Three findings follow. First, the past is rarely needed and far away. Pooled measures mislead: a recency window finds the required message for 95.9% of probes and 2.2% of those that need memory, and at the natural rate 96% of the gain from supplying recorded evidence comes from messages that need none. Second, no detector we tried can tell when memory is needed on real messages, authored questions over the same histories leak the cue, and labeling the same messages as memories raises their use by ten to fourteen points. Third, three agent systems reconstruct the persona with the same F1 at a 31-fold difference in cost.

Figures & tables

Panel of Figure 1 — Figure 1: A user’s messages to an AI companion, and what the companion built from them. Reply A uses a persona line the companion got wrong, so it congratulates the user on a job they were unsure about. Reply B uses only the profile, so it repeats what the user already said. Reply C uses a correct persona line and the profile, so it speaks to why the user applied.

Panel of Table 1 — Table 1: Memory and personalization benchmarks. Filled circles mark yes, open circles no, and half-filled not applicable.

User	Span	Active days	Messages	Chat items	Question items
U01	36	9	115	28	23
U02	101	19	173	35	27
U03	46	12	173	26	36
U04	71	19	195	39	35
U05	46	23	420	37	47
U06	120	53	1349	81	110

Table 2: Per-participant composition.

Panel of Figure 2 — Figure 2: How the chat ground truth is built.

Track	Input	Output	Scored against	Items
Reconstruction	a participant’s full history	profile and persona files, each entry citing messages	the released files, field by field (precision, recall, F1, run agreement)	10 participants
Chat	a message the participant sent, with the history before it	a ranking of earlier messages; a reply	reference set (hit@ $k$ , MRR); reference reply (content match, evidence coverage, appropriate application rate); need for memory (misfire rate, AUROC)	1,533 + 434
Question	an authored question over the whole history	a ranking of earlier messages; an answer or an abstention	reference set (hit@ $k$ , MRR); answerability (abstention, AUROC); reference answer (judged accuracy)	3,235

Table 3: The three tracks. Item counts are scoreable items; the chat count adds 434 cold opens.

Method	All items	Averaged by participant	Dependent items
Random	0.005	0.004	0.000
Recency over participant messages	0.015	0.014	0.006
Recency	0.022	0.029	0.024
BM25	0.248	0.424	0.347
Oracle	1.000	1.000	1.000
Broken oracle	0.000	0.000	0.000

Table 4: Hit@5 on the distant items.

Condition	Context supplied	All items	Averaged by participant
C0	None	1.431	1.286
C1	Three preceding messages	1.622	1.587
C2	Recorded messages (oracle)	1.763	1.736
C3	Ten messages retrieved by BM25	1.426	1.352
C4	Ten preceding messages	1.625	1.584

Table 5: Content match by context condition.

System	F1	Precision	Recall	Tokens processed	Run agreement
Claude Opus 5.5	0.686	0.557	0.893	546M	0.935
Codex GPT-5.6-sol	0.688	0.573	0.861	18M	0.932
Antigravity Gemini 3.8 Flash	0.701	0.591	0.861	36M	0.946

Table 6: Persona reconstruction from the full history, pooled over the ten participants.

Appendix figures & tables42 assets

Supplementary material from the paper’s appendix.

Appendix

Quantity	Scored on	Items	Aggregation
Quantity	Scored on	Items	Aggregation
Misfire rate ( 3 )	$\rho^{\star}=0$	1,129	pooled and macro
Attribution rate ( 4 )	$\rho^{\star}=1$	404 / 250	pooled and macro
Locus accuracy ( 5 )	$\rho^{\star}=1$	404 / 250	pooled and macro
Response consistency ( 6 )	all scoreable	1,533	pooled and macro

Appendix

Table 7: Scored quantities and their populations.

Stratum	Reading	$\pi$	$\gamma_{1}$	$\gamma_{0}$	$\pi\gamma_{1}$	$(1-\pi)\gamma_{0}$	From no-memory rows
both	recorded	0.264	$+0.233$	$+0.107$	$+0.061$	$+0.079$	56%
both	strict	0.163	$+0.256$	$+0.115$	$+0.042$	$+0.096$	70%
proportional	recorded	0.034	$+0.125$	$+0.107$	$+0.004$	$+0.104$	96%
proportional	strict	0.013	$+0.333$	$+0.105$	$+0.004$	$+0.104$	96%

Appendix

Table 8: Decomposition of the retrieval contrast by ground-truth demand.

	Condition	Status in RealCompanion	Established in
V1	Sufficiency verified	holds	D.1
V2	References off screen	holds under the strict reading	D.4
V3	One unconditioned stratum	holds	D.2
V4	Stores fixed in advance	holds	D.3
V5	An underived layer, cited	holds	C.7
V6	Refutation only demotes	holds after repair	D.5

Appendix

Table 9: Validity conditions and where each is established.

Column	Criterion
Row group	How the underlying record was produced. crowdworker when people were recruited to converse, generated when a model produced it, public histories when it was assembled from public activity, real when people produced it while using a deployed system for their own purposes.
Longitudinal	Yes when the record spans more than one session. It does not require the elapsed time to be real; MSC instructs workers to write as though days had passed.
Probes	How the item put to the system was produced: authored by a person, synthesized by a model, verbatim when taken unchanged from the record.
Evidence	Yes when each item names the specific records its gold answer rests on.
Abstention	Yes when the benchmark scores declining to answer or declining to retrieve.
Derivations	Yes when each item records how its label was produced, including checks that failed and labels that were revised. A rationale written after a label is assigned does not qualify.

Appendix

Table 10: Criteria behind each column.

File	Contents	Corpus total
source	every message in order, with sender, timestamp and media marker	27,218 messages
profile	evidenced claims about the participant, in eleven top-level fields	3,580 claims
persona	an interpretive portrait of the participant, thirty-nine slots	390 slots
chat	the chat evaluation track, with a separate abstention control	2,034 rows
qa	the question evaluation track	3,312 rows

Appendix

Table 11: The five released files.

Field	Meaning	Present on
text	the claim	3,580
evidence	message identifiers establishing it, non-empty	3,579
evidence_count	length of that list	3,580
confidence , confidence_label	strength, numeric and banded	3,579
first_seen , last_seen	observation window	3,109
temporality	stable, event or transient	3,122

Appendix

Table 12: The profile claim record.

Field	Meaning
probe , probe_dayid	the participant’s message, verbatim, and its identifier
gold_response	the reference reply, written under the recorded context
tier , category	context shape, recomputable from the lists, and category, assigned by rule
stratum	proportional , enriched or abstention
required_context	recent_context , profile_refs , episode_refs , recent_needed
trace	phases A to E , each with its result and rationale

Appendix

Table 13: The chat row.

			Memory-bearing probes
			All scoreable		Proportional stratum
Participant	Profile claims	Persona slots empty	Recorded	Strict	Recorded	Strict
U01	39	26	0	0	0	0
U02	22	23	1	0	0	0
U03	36	26	0	0	0	0
U04	40	24	0	0	0	0

Appendix

Table 14: Derived layers and memory-bearing counts per subject.

Audit verdict	Claims
supported	1,471
repairable	1,025
needs_review	390
unsupported	455
supported_after_pruning	37
not judged	202

Appendix

Table 15: Audit verdicts on profile claims.

Phase	Writes	May revise
A	referent_text , locus	nothing; it is the first statement
B	rationaleB	the reference set, by removing entries whose evidence does not verify; it may never add one
C	tier , category , ruleC	nothing; both are functions of the context shape B left behind
D	gold_response , grounding_dayids	nothing; it conditions on the context C left behind
E	ok , category_ok	whether the item ships: a failure is returned for repair or withdrawn

Appendix

Table 16: What each phase writes.

	Tier assigned after verification
Sampled as	basic	intermediate	hard	edge
basic (876)	696	99	79	2
intermediate (386)	269	88	29	0
hard (97)	72	15	10	0
edge (173)	36	20	63	54

Appendix

Table 17: Sampling bucket against verified tier.

Tier	Category	Items
basic	continuation	944
	clarification	95
	social	34
intermediate	change_over_time	97
	biographical	68
	habitual	30

Appendix

Table 18: Chat categories by tier, scoreable items.

Where the referent lives	Proportional stratum		Scoreable set
	Items	Share	Items
The current thread	1009	86.3%	1009
A claim in the profile	13	1.1%	223
A specific earlier exchange	10	0.9%	116
The companion’s own past behavior	17	1.5%	65
Nothing prior	120	10.3%	120

Appendix

Table 19: Verified locus of every scoreable chat item.

How the verdict was reached	Clear	Borderline	Not on screen	Rows
Cited reference inside the window	11	0	0	11
First reading pass	68	5	12	85
Second reading pass	57	10	12	79
Final reading pass	18	30	181	229
Total	154	45	205	404

Appendix

Table 20: On-screen verdicts by provenance.

Stratum	Recorded	Clear removed	Clear and borderline removed
Proportional (1,169)	40	15	15
Enriched (364)	364	235	190
Pooled (1,533)	404	250	205

Appendix

Table 21: Memory-bearing rows under each reading.

What failed	Code	Rows
The context could not be reconstructed	context_lost	17
	gold_outside_empty_context	3
	stage_b_empty_context	2
The gold could not be supported	gold_unsupported_rebuild_failed	12
	stored_verdict_failed	3
	stage_b_gold_unsupported	1

Appendix

Table 22: Withdrawn rows by reason.

	First instruction	Corrected
Rows audited	1,533	1,530
No finding / minor / major	384 / 197 / 952	677 / 220 / 633
Majors concerning rationale wording only	396	91
Majors on thread-only rows	591	294
Majors on cold opens	54	24
Rows with a material flag	459	443

Appendix

Table 23: Independent audit of the chat track.

Gate	What it tests
A	The probe is a real user turn, reproduced verbatim
B	Database identifiers parallel the turn identifiers
C	Every cited identifier resolves to a released turn
D	Every cited identifier precedes its probe
E	A callback reaches outside the recent window
F	A gold response is present unless the item is a cold open

Appendix

Table 24: Release gates, all passing.

Family	What it checks	Result
Referent	The recorded referent is present in the turns the row cites	1,339 of 1,341 judged rows grounded; two exceptions recorded and allowed to stand.
Signals	The pre-verification scores and the probe text still reproduce	Scores exact on 1,999 of 1,999 matched rows; probe verbatim on 1,999 of 1,999
Category rule	The tier, the category and the rule sentence agree	Agree on 2,018 rows; 3 relabeled by record; 13 carry no session index
Structural	Each question category satisfies its own definition	Passes: 0 of 38 multi hop within one session, 0 of 26 knowledge update citing one message, 0 of 22 long range short of the span threshold
Arithmetic	The validity conditions of Appendix A.4 hold row by row	Tier re computable on 1,967 of 1,967 scoreable rows; no stratum exception; the unanswerable count reconciles

Appendix

Table 25: Check families.

	Delivered	After reclassification	After wording repair	After replacement
Content defect rate	51.3	51.2	39.2	28.8
unsupported answer	31.6	32.1	26.1	18.1
question ill formed	35.6	34.9	24.2	17.5
answerable flag wrong	11.5	15.7	10.7	4.9
no cited turn is evidence	9.7	11.2	7.7	3.1

Appendix

Table 26: What each repair bought, same items, pooled percent.

Category	$\kappa$	Confused pair	Disagreements	$\kappa$ on the pair
unanswerable	1.000	attribute / basic_fact	90	0.639
ambiguous_ref	1.000	opinion / preference	52	0.671
temporal	0.989	basic_fact / person_reference	34	0.656
long_range	0.977	basic_fact / preference	30	0.607
multi_hop	0.958	basic_fact / opinion	20	0.523
paraphrase	0.928	basic_fact / routine	17	0.403

Appendix

Table 27: Category agreement between the classifier and the auditor.

Condition	Block heading	Contents
C0	none	The probe alone
C1	recent conversation	The 3 messages immediately preceding the probe, either sender
C2	relevant memories	The item’s recorded messages: recent context, then episode references, then profile evidence, de-duplicated and restricted to messages preceding the probe. Every other turn is withheld
C3	retrieved memories	The top 10 messages returned by BM25 over the participant’s preceding messages, queried with the probe
C4	recent conversation	The 10 messages immediately preceding the probe, either sender
C3m	earlier messages from this chat	The same 10 messages as C3, in chronological order

Appendix

Table 28: The five context conditions and the matched pair.

Control	Held fixed	Destroyed
Offset permuted	The pool, and the distribution of distances from probe to gold	The relation between the gold messages and what the probe is about
Position randomized	The pool, and the size of the gold set	Both the distances and the content relation
Broken oracle	Nothing; 20 pool messages known to lie outside the gold	Everything; the expected score is zero

Appendix

Table 29: Retrieval controls.

Quantity	Field	Computed as
Misfire rate	restraint	One minus the restraint rate on probes with an empty reference set
Appropriate application	used_memory	The rate at which a reply on a memory-bearing probe asserts a past detail the probe did not supply, correct or not
Content match	content_match	The three-point verdict against the reference reply: 2 conveys its substance, 1 partly, 0 not at all
Retrieval	rank of the gold messages	Hit at 1, 5 and 20 (a required message in the top $k$ ), recall over the whole gold set at the same cutoffs, and reciprocal rank of the first gold message
Detectability	BM25 top-1 score; detector probability	Area under the ROC curve against the recorded label, on the proportional stratum, for the lexical scorer’s own confidence and for a model shown the probe and three preceding messages

Appendix

Table 30: How each quantity is computed.

Role	Model	Temperature
Ablation generator	gemini-3-flash-preview	0
Response judge	gemini-3.6-flash	0
Independent auditor	gemini-3.1-pro-preview	0

Appendix

Table 31: Models by role.

Procedure	Denominator	recorded	strict	strict 2
Natural-rate stratum	1,169 sampled turns	3.4 [2.5, 4.6]	1.3 [0.8, 2.1]	1.3
Exhaustive sweep	11,369 unsampled turns	3.2 [2.9, 3.5]	2.1 [1.8, 2.3]	1.7 [1.5, 1.9]
Sweep re-read	11,369 unsampled turns	1.73 [1.45, 2.06]	1.12 [0.94, 1.33]	0.90 [0.76, 1.07]

Appendix

Table 32: Demand rate as a percentage of user turns.

Required turn in the top five
Gold set	Random	Recency over user turns	Recency	BM25	Oracle
Actual	0.073	0.372	0.979	0.282	1.000
Position randomized	0.092	0.072	0.104	0.056	1.000
Offset permuted	0.089	0.377	0.982	0.216	1.000
Broken oracle	0.000	0.000	0.000	0.000	0.000
Recall over the gold set at five

Appendix

Table 33: Retrieval under substituted gold sets.

Turns preceding the probe				Tokens preceding the probe
Window	recorded	strict	strict 2	Window	recorded	strict	strict 2
10	0.010	0.000	0.000	8k	0.109	0.088	0.083
25	0.030	0.024	0.024	32k	0.248	0.212	0.205
50	0.050	0.032	0.034	128k	0.453	0.440	0.424
100	0.079	0.060	0.059	200k	0.567	0.548	0.532
250	0.158	0.136	0.137	400k	0.782	0.772	0.756

Appendix

Table 34: Share of memory-bearing probes whose every required turn lies in the window. Populations are 404, 250 and 205. Tokens are counted with cl100k_base .

Panel of Figure 4 — Figure 4: Evidence coverage by context budget.

Population	C0	C1	C2	C3	C4
All rows, both strata ( $n{=}1{,}533$ )	1.293	1.590	1.739	1.358	1.587
All rows, proportional ( $n{=}1{,}169$ )	1.288	1.612	1.747	1.350	1.610
Memory-bearing, recorded ( $n{=}404$ )	1.410	1.452	1.780	1.501	1.377
Memory-bearing, strict ( $n{=}250$ )	1.555	1.519	1.822	1.697	1.513

Appendix

Table 35: Response score by condition.

Whole corpus, both strata
Contrast and population	recorded	strict	strict 2
C1 minus C0	$+0.297$ [ $+0.197$ , $+0.403$ ]	—	—
C2 minus C1	$+0.149$ [ $+0.107$ , $+0.201$ ]	—	—
C3 minus C1	$-0.232$ [ $-0.328$ , $-0.148$ ]	—	—
C4 minus C1	$-0.003$ [ $-0.052$ , $+0.044$ ]	—	—
C2 minus C3	$+0.381$ [ $+0.304$ , $+0.463$ ]	—	—

Appendix

Table 36: Paired contrasts, bootstrapped over subjects. Whole-corpus rows do not vary with the reading, which affects only the memory-bearing populations.

Condition	Misapplication	Appropriate application	Restraint
	$n=120$	$n=404$	$n=1{,}533$
C0 no context	0.0 [0.0, 3.1]	0.0	100.0
C1 three preceding turns	46.7 [38.0, 55.6]	34.7 [30.2, 39.5]	63.5 [61.1, 65.9]
C2 recorded evidence turns	29.2 [21.8, 37.8]	69.8 [65.2, 74.1]	41.7 [39.2, 44.2]
C3 ten turns from BM25	60.8 [51.9, 69.1]	62.4 [57.6, 67.0]	36.9 [34.5, 39.4]
C4 ten preceding turns	54.2 [45.3, 62.8]	47.5 [42.7, 52.4]	47.7 [45.3, 50.3]

Appendix

Table 37: Selectivity by supplied context.

Method	1	4	4	20	39	123	213	macro / pooled
	U02	U05	U06	U07	U08	U09	U10
Random	0.000	0.000	0.000	0.000	0.026	0.000	0.005	0.004 / 0.005
Recency over user turns	0.000	0.000	0.000	0.050	0.026	0.016	0.009	0.014 / 0.015
Recency	0.000	0.000	0.000	0.100	0.077	0.016	0.009	0.029 / 0.022
BM25	1.000	0.500	0.250	0.400	0.359	0.268	0.192	0.424 / 0.248
Oracle	1.000	1.000	1.000	1.000	1.000	1.000	1.000	1.000 / 1.000

Appendix

Table 38: Required turn in the top five, by subject, recorded reading.

Misapplication, verified locus none
Condition	U01	U02	U03	U04	U05	U06	U07	U08	U09	U10	macro / pooled
C1	0.000	0.333	0.000	0.500	0.625	0.222	0.333	0.562	0.487	0.545	0.361 / 0.467
C2	1.000	0.000	0.500	0.375	0.250	0.111	0.417	0.188	0.282	0.364	0.349 / 0.292
C3	0.000	1.000	0.000	0.625	0.750	0.444	0.750	0.500	0.615	0.636	0.532 / 0.608
C4	1.000	0.667	0.000	0.500	0.750	0.333	0.500	0.625	0.487	0.636	0.550 / 0.542
Appropriate application, memory-bearing, recorded

Appendix

Table 39: Use of supplied context, by subject. C0 is zero in every cell.

Condition	U01	U02	U03	U04	U05	U06	U07	U08	U09	U10	macro / pooled
C0	0.929	1.286	1.115	1.333	1.243	1.025	1.513	1.394	1.643	1.378	1.286 / 1.431
C1	1.571	1.429	1.462	1.692	1.568	1.568	1.680	1.647	1.696	1.560	1.587 / 1.622
C2	1.643	1.714	1.538	1.769	1.784	1.790	1.793	1.805	1.827	1.691	1.736 / 1.763
C3	0.964	1.314	1.154	1.564	1.432	1.296	1.507	1.339	1.622	1.324	1.352 / 1.426
C4	1.643	1.543	1.423	1.538	1.514	1.580	1.707	1.606	1.737	1.546	1.584 / 1.625
C2 $-$ C1	+0.071	+0.286	+0.077	+0.077	+0.216	+0.222	+0.113	+0.158	+0.131	+0.131	0.148 / 0.140

Appendix

Table 40: Content match by condition and subject, all judged rows.

System	Subjects	Run	Track	$n$	Answer accuracy	Required turn in top five
Codex port	ten	current	questions	3,235	0.445	0.331
Codex port	ten	current	chat	1,533	0.581	0.137
Supermemory	U09	carried	questions	986	0.664	0.537
Supermemory	U09	carried	chat	434	0.634	0.199
Supermemory	U10	carried	questions	1,255	0.596	0.465
Supermemory	U10	carried	chat	482	0.633	0.117

Appendix

Table 41: Deployed memory systems by coverage.

System	Layer	F1	Precision	Recall	Runs agree
Claude	persona	0.69 (0.68–0.69)	0.56 (0.55–0.56)	0.89 (0.88–0.90)	0.93
	profile	0.80 (0.79–0.81)	0.80 (0.79–0.80)	0.80 (0.79–0.82)	0.95
Codex	persona	0.69 (0.69–0.69)	0.57 (0.57–0.57)	0.86 (0.86–0.86)	0.93
	profile	0.77 (0.77–0.77)	0.75 (0.75–0.75)	0.79 (0.79–0.80)	0.95
Antigravity	persona	0.70 (0.68–0.72)	0.59 (0.57–0.61)	0.86 (0.84–0.88)	0.95
	profile	0.78 (0.77–0.78)	0.80 (0.80–0.81)	0.75 (0.74–0.76)	0.91

Appendix

Table 42: Agreement with GT over the ten subjects, mean (min–max) over the three runs. Models as in § G.2 .

Panel of Figure 5 — Figure 5: Vote distribution by category and system, pooled over the ten subjects: the share of GT’s filled fields that 3, 2, 1 or 0 of a system’s three runs match (the 0/3 segment is hatched).

		Persona F1			Profile F1
subject	tokens	Claude	Codex	Antigravity	Claude	Codex	Antigravity
U01	2,743	0.72	0.73	0.70	0.74	0.67	0.82
U02	11,662	0.79	0.81	0.78	0.65	0.55	0.67
U03	4,493	0.75	0.72	0.72	0.64	0.62	0.68
U04	7,326	0.76	0.75	0.86	0.76	0.77	0.77
U05	12,086	0.74	0.68	0.78	0.76	0.75	0.78

Appendix

Table 43: F1 per subject (mean of the three runs), and Spearman

\rho

between transcript size and F1 across the ten subjects with its exact p. Adjusted drops the categories whose GT depends on history length: extra dimensions and demographics in the persona, and every presence category in the profile, leaving Big Five and entities.

	Persona			Profile
System	calls	processed	output	calls	processed	output
Claude	1,716	545.5M	3.0M	296	117.8M	904k
Codex	138	17.7M	153k	28	3.7M	182k
Antigravity	498	35.8M	677k	509	34.3M	902k

Appendix

Table 44: Cost per run over the ten subjects (U10 read in halves): model calls, tokens processed and output tokens.

Symbol	Introduced in	Meaning
The record
$u$	A.1	A subject; the corpus has ten
$m$ , $m_{i}$	A.1	A message in a subject’s stream
$M_{u}$	A.1	The stream of subject $u$ , ordered in time
$N_{u}$	A.1	Its length
$s(m)$ , $\tau(m)$ , $\iota(m)$	A.1 , C.3	The sender, timestamp and stored identifier of $m$

Appendix

Table 45: Symbols.

Term	Meaning in this paper
Probe	A user turn taken verbatim from the transcript, never authored
Gold response	A reference reply written from the probe and the recorded context and nothing else
Reference set	The records the gold response used, disjoint from the recent window by construction
Locus	Which store holds the referent; a judgment, unlike the tier
Tier	The shape of the three context lists; a function of them, and re-computable
Category	A subdivision of a tier, assigned by the same rule

Appendix

Table 46: Terminology.

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LifeSide: Benchmarking Agents as Lifelong Digital Companions

Yuqian Wu, Zhijie Deng, Wei Chen, Junwei Li+7

Hong Kong University of Science and Technology (Guangzhou) · Tencent · Hong Kong University of Science and Technology

Artificial Intelligence Companions Dialogue Benchmarks Empathy Multimodal Memory Life

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Lifelong digital companions must integrate cross-session cues, continually update their understanding of users, and adapt to shifting privacy boundaries. Existing evaluations fail to capture this, testing memory recall and short-term empathy in isolation. To bridge this gap, we introduce \benchmark, a benchmark centered on multi-session \textit{Memory-Emotion-Environment} loops. By modeling users as persistent worlds with layered profiles and event trajectories, \benchmark uses multi-agent simulation to project environmental dynamics into dialogue, preserving the critical gap between latent thoughts and observable expressions. Evaluating 2,000 personas and 111K tasks across memory tracking, user understanding, privacy control, and emotional companionship, our experiment results reveal a stark reality: even models that saturate current memory benchmarks fail to sustain accurate user understanding and true companionship over long horizons.

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