Robots must verbalize their past experiences when users ask "Where did you put my keys?" or "Why did the task fail?" Yet maintaining life-long episodic memory (EM) from continuous multimodal perception quickly exceeds storage limits and makes real-time query impractical, calling for selective forgetting that adapts to users' notions of relevance. We present H2-EMV, a framework enabling humanoids to learn what to remember through user interaction. Our approach incrementally constructs hierarchical EM, selectively forgets using language-model-based relevance estimation conditioned on learned natural-language rules, and updates these rules given user feedback about forgotten details. Evaluations on simulated household tasks and 20.5-hour-long real-world recordings from ARMAR-7 demonstrate that H2-EMV maintains question-answering accuracy while reducing memory size by 45% and query-time compute by 35%. Critically, performance improves over time - accuracy increases 70% in second-round queries by adapting to user-specific priorities - demonstrating that learned forgetting enables scalable, personalized EM for long-term human-robot collaboration.
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Figure 1: H 2 -Emv models and verbalizes episodic memory of a robot using a tree-like data structure constructed online, managing storage and compute efficiency by forgetting of old items based on a relevance measure learned from user feedback.
Figure 2: Overview of our evaluation procedure with model output examples
Social robots that rely on large language models for conversation are unable to retain information across sessions. This absence of memory violates social expectations, potentially preventing the formation of persistent relationships. This paper presents a lightweight episodic memory module that integrates vector-based semantic retrieval with an LLM-controlled dialog system, deployed on the humanoid robot head Kim. The module employs a hybrid scoring function combining cosine similarity with a memory strength metric to retrieve contextually relevant past interactions and inject them into the generation prompt. The system was evaluated in a within-subjects video-based online study (N = 43) using the Human-Robot Interaction Evaluation Scale (HRIES). Results show that episodic memory significantly increased perceived sociability (d = 0.60, p < .001), with the strongest effects on perceived trustworthiness (d = 0.62) and warmth (d = 0.56). Perceived disturbance remained unchanged (d = 0.00), indicating that the implemented approach to personalized recall did not trigger privacy-related discomfort or uncanny valley effects. These findings suggest that episodic memory serves as a social lubricant in embodied Human-Robot Interaction, enhancing relational quality without eliciting negative affective responses.
Steve Aschenbrenner, Marcel Heisler, Thomas Sievers +1
Stuttgart Media University, Germany · University of Lübeck
Deploying Multimodal Large Language Models as the brain of embodied agents remains challenging, particularly under long-horizon observations and limited context budgets. Existing memory assisted methods often rely on textual summaries, which discard rich visual and spatial details and remain brittle in non-stationary environments. In this work, we propose a non-parametric memory framework that explicitly disentangles episodic and semantic memory for embodied exploration and question answering. Our retrieval-first, reasoning-assisted paradigm recalls episodic experiences via semantic similarity and verifies them through visual reasoning, enabling robust reuse of past observations without rigid geometric alignment. In parallel, we introduce a program-style rule extraction mechanism that converts experiences into structured, reusable semantic memory, facilitating cross-environment generalization. Extensive experiments demonstrate state-of-the-art performance on embodied question answering and exploration benchmarks, yielding a 7.3% gain in LLM-Match and an 11.4% gain in LLM MatchXSPL on A-EQA, as well as +7.7% success rate and +6.8% SPL on GOAT-Bench. Analyses reveal that our episodic memory primarily improves exploration efficiency, while semantic memory strengthens complex reasoning of embodied agents.
Ji Li, Bo Wang, Jing Xia +2
The University of Hong Kong, Hong Kong SAR. · Beijing Institute of Technology, Beijing, China.
Conventionally, memory in end-to-end robotic learning involves inputting a sequence of past observations into the learned policy. However, in complex multi-stage real-world tasks, the robot's memory must represent past events at multiple levels of granularity: from long-term memory that captures abstracted semantic concepts (e.g., a robot cooking dinner should remember which stages of the recipe are already done) to short-term memory that captures recent events and compensates for occlusions (e.g., a robot remembering the object it wants to pick up once its arm occludes it). In this work, our main insight is that an effective memory architecture for long-horizon robotic control should combine multiple modalities to capture these different levels of abstraction. We introduce Multi-Scale Embodied Memory (MEM), an approach for mixed-modal long-horizon memory in robot policies. MEM combines video-based short-horizon memory, compressed via a video encoder, with text-based long-horizon memory. Together, they enable robot policies to perform tasks that span up to fifteen minutes, like cleaning up a kitchen, or preparing a grilled cheese sandwich. Additionally, we find that memory enables MEM policies to intelligently adapt manipulation strategies in-context.
Marcel Torne, Karl Pertsch, Homer Walke +14
Physical Intelligence · Stanford University · UC Berkeley +1