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Modern recommendation is shifting from platform-centric personalization toward user-governed personalization, where a personal LLM agent can act on the user's behalf across services. We formalize this emerging paradigm as Personal-Agent Mediated Recommendation: a platform recommender ranks a candidate set using platform-local information, and a personal agent uses user-authorized cross-platform history to mediate the resulting ranking and produce the final top-K slate. Such mediation is nontrivial: the platform ranking can encode strong population evidence that the personal agent cannot observe, so effective mediation must therefore balance beneficial rescues against harmful overrides. To study this trade-off, we introduce MediateRec, a benchmark that includes scalable proxy cross-platform environments and a real cross-platform test under a controlled platform-agent information boundary. To train the agent to use cross-platform history effectively, we further propose Personal Attribution Mediation Optimization (PAMO), which counterfactually masks that history to estimate personal mediation support and reallocates rank-aware advantage mass under a platform-relative value floor. We theoretically prove that PAMO preserves cutoff-level advantage mass and is locally optimal among first-order reallocations that preserve this mass without lowering average platform-relative value. Experiments on MediateRec show that personal-agent mediation enables meaningful platform corrections, yet even strong proprietary LLMs introduce non-negligible harmful overrides. PAMO consistently improves over matched outcome-only RL across seen and unseen target platforms and on the real cross-platform test, while achieving a better rescue-harm balance.
Rubric-Aware On-Policy Self-Distillation for LLM Personalization
LLM personalization aims to generate responses aligned with individual users' preferences and needs. User-specific rubrics make these expectations explicit, providing direct supervision on what a satisfactory answer should cover. Existing rubric-guided approaches, however, exploit such guidance only at a coarse granularity, either by using rubrics to supervise the prediction of relevant aspects for subsequent generation or by reducing aspect coverage to a single response-level reward for reinforcement learning. This leaves a gap between specifying what a personalized answer should contain and teaching the model how to generate it. To bridge this gap, we propose GRASP, a rubric-aware on-policy self-distillation framework for LLM personalization that turns user-specific rubric aspects into fine-grained, token-level supervision. Specifically, GRASP pairs a rubric-free student with a rubric-informed teacher that additionally receives the target user-specific rubrics. By aligning their next-token distributions along on-policy trajectories generated by the student, GRASP transfers the teacher's rubric-conditioned guidance into the student, translating user-specific semantic requirements into dense token-level supervision. Since rubric-informed teachers can still produce inadequate supervision, we further introduce Rubric-based Teacher Validation (RTV), which retains only instances where the teacher sufficiently covers the target aspects, improving both supervision quality and training efficiency. Experiments on the LaMP-QA benchmark for personalized question answering demonstrate that GRASP achieves state-of-the-art performance across multiple backbones, supporting the effectiveness of rubric-guided token-level supervision for personalization. To ensure reproducibility, our code is available at https://github.com/SnowCharmQ/GRASP.
Memory Has Geometry: Non-Uniform Geometric Memory for Long-Horizon Personalized AI
Long-term memory is becoming a core substrate for personalized AI, yet most systems still represent personalization as discrete records in a largely static latent space, accessed under one global similarity notion. For data mining, this creates a mismatch: the evidence is a temporal event stream, while the dominant abstraction is a searchable record set. We argue that long-horizon personalization should instead model memory as a user-specific dynamical state space with locally heterogeneous geometry. Geometry here is a computational language, not a literal claim about cognition: it captures stable versus volatile regions, variable-rate drift, heterogeneous neighborhoods, and uncertainty about current user state. Profiles and isolated events remain useful as points, but interaction, feedback, and elapsed time induce trajectories. Memory access then becomes trajectory-conditioned reconstruction of the relevant user state, not only nearest-neighbor lookup.
Mind2Dialogue: Training Human-Aware Language Models by Simulating User Mental States
As language models become more capable, long-term collaboration in learning, reasoning, and decision-making calls for a deeper understanding of the people they serve. Yet training such human-aware language models faces a fundamental supervision gap because current datasets for LLM assistant training contain few if any well-informed responses explicitly grounded in users' unspoken beliefs and goals. Scaling such supervision is inherently constrained, as users' underlying states are not directly observable. We thus propose the Mind2Dialogue framework to mitigate this gap by simulating users' mental states and turning them into privileged supervision for human-aware training. Specifically, we first propose a psychology-guided simulator that preserves personal characteristics while updating mental states through interaction to generate coherent conversations. The key idea is to enforce a shared evolving mental state that drives user behavior and guides an Oracle assistant's responses. Our privileged distillation then trains models on the Oracle's well-informed responses to assist users without direct access to their mental states at deployment. Moreover, we propose to evaluate human-aware learning by combining personalization and theory of mind, examining how models understand people and act on that understanding. Training on the full Mind2Dialogue corpus improves every reported personalization metric over the corresponding Qwen, Llama, and OLMo instruction-tuned baselines, including gains of 26.6 to 40.9 percentage points in preference-following generation. The gains extend to belief and action reasoning on Qwen and Llama, beyond personalized assistance. Looking forward, Mind2Dialogue makes user simulation a foundation for genuine AI collaborators that understand beliefs and intentions behind people's words and support their long-term goals across education, work, and everyday life.
Generate to Explore, Select to Exploit: Aligning LLM-based Headline Generation with Personalized Recommendation
In industrial recommendation feeds, presenting a static headline for an item often fails to satisfy the diverse, multimodal interests of the user population, particularly suppressing the needs of long-tail audiences. While Large Language Models (LLMs) have been integrated into recommendation for content understanding or ranking, directly optimizing them to output a single best headline typically leads to mode collapse---converging to generic patterns that satisfy average tastes but miss specific latent intents. To bridge this gap, we introduce GESE (Generate to Explore, Select to Exploit), a framework operating at the system's presentation layer that decouples personalization into generative exploration and selective exploitation. First, we treat the LLM as a probabilistic explorer, utilizing Group Sequence Policy Optimization (GSPO) with a hierarchical reward mechanism to generate a candidate set that maximizes the semantic coverage of potential user interests. Subsequently, a lightweight, real-time feedback-aware selector acts as the exploiter, identifying the optimal realization from the candidate pool based on instant contextual signals. Extensive deployment on a commercial platform with over 100 million daily active users demonstrates that GESE significantly outperforms state-of-the-art baselines, achieving a 2.57% lift in CTR and 0.87% in dwell time. These results validate that decoupling diversity-oriented generation from precision-oriented selection offers a robust blueprint for aligning generative AI with dynamic user utility.
Creating an Atomic User Model for Personality-Aware Large Language Model Interaction
Assistants built on large language models are expected to write in their users' own voice. Most systems summarise the user's preferences and include the summary in the prompt. This is the wrong way round. Preferences are only the surface of a person and change with the task, while the underlying personality stays the same, so storing preferences alone means relearning the user afresh whenever the task changes. This paper makes four contributions. First, we describe an effect we call personality seepage: the wording of a prompt carries traces of the writer's personality, which the assistant copies without knowing the writer. Second, we propose the Atomic User Model (AUM), a readable profile with a stable identity core surrounded by four layers covering psychological, cognitive, experiential, behavioral, and social details, plus notes on inner conflict and authenticity. Third, instead of inserting the entire profile, we use AUM as a searchable index, in which a task classifier, a selection step, and a budgeted retriever pass along only a few relevant fields. Fourth, we test the pipeline with 16 simulated users, 6 style-sensitive tasks, and 3 seeds. Eight retrieved fields matched the writing quality of the whole profile, while using only 23 percent of the context (211 tokens instead of 915). They scored 0.24 points higher than a plain preference note on a five-point scale. Accuracy in picking a user's own writing from four samples rose from 14.9 to 42.7 percent, where guessing gives 25 percent. Four pre-registered controls showed no effect, so the gain comes from the profile's structure rather than the search method. Personalization helps most for the users for whom a generic assistant imitates them the worst.
HyperTrace: Hypothesis-Based Preference Tracing for Online LLM Personalization
Personalized language models aim to adapt responses to individual users, whose preferences are often latent and revealed gradually through interaction. Existing training-free methods rely on stored histories or retrieved memories, but they often struggle to reconcile long- term preferences with short-term topic-specific needs. To address this issue, we propose HyperTrace, a training-free framework that formulates online personalization as latent preference tracing. HyperTrace maintains interpretable natural-language hypotheses over short-term intent and long-term preferences, and updates them through an SMC-style reweight process using an LLM-based surrogate choice model. By updating these hypotheses across turns and sessions, HyperTrace enables personalization without parameter updates. Experiments on PRISM and PersonaMem-v2 show that HyperTrace improves response alignment, preference prediction, and profile consistency over strong online baselines, demonstrating the effectiveness of tracing latent user preferences for robust personalization. Code and scripts are available in the repository: https://github.com/jiseshen/HyperTrace.
Less Is Personal: Learning Minimal Sufficient User Profiles for Personalized Language Models
Retrieval-augmented personalization enables large language models to produce more accurate and preference-aligned outputs using relevant records retrieved from user histories. Personalized language models typically prepend a fixed number of retrieved user records, even when additional history is redundant, harmful, or unrelated to a user's distinctive behavior. We study minimal sufficient personalization: constructing the least costly ordered profile for each input while preserving the utility achievable from a retrieved candidate pool. We introduce ENOUGH, a method that iteratively appends behavioral records or emits STOP to construct profiles with adaptive lengths. Offline, bounded counterfactual search evaluates profile prefixes by jointly considering downstream gains, user specificity, and token costs. The resulting long-horizon targets are distilled into a multi-head value controller with explicit ranking and stopping supervision. At inference, the controller selects and orders records through lightweight decisions, and the frozen generator is invoked once after stopping. Extensive experiments on six personalized tasks demonstrate that ENOUGH consistently outperforms strong heuristic and retrieval-augmented baselines in both effectiveness and efficiency, achieving minimal sufficient profiles that preserve personalization utility while reducing unnecessary context costs.
Aegix Pulse: A Traceable Three-Stage Architecture for Personalized Content Generation and Context-Preserving Revision
Production content-generation systems must integrate a user's immediate task, long-term brand identity, historical evidence, and revision feedback. We present Aegix Pulse, a production-oriented three-stage architecture that separates current-task clarification and Task Persona finalization, long-term Account Profile (Brand DNA) assembly, and controlled generation and revision while preserving provenance across content versions. We evaluate four preregistered claims using 96 synthetic social-media generation tasks. Four initial-generation conditions progressively introduced a Task Persona, Account Profile, and successful-history style evidence, while two revision conditions compared plain and context-preserving revision. The experiment produced 480 completed generation records and 1,440 blinded LLM-Judge evaluations, supplemented by human review. Adding the Account Profile increased mean brand-consistency scores by 0.1562 points on a five-point scale compared with Task Persona alone (Holm-adjusted p=.1224). Preserving task and brand context during revision increased mean task-preservation scores by 0.2917 points compared with plain revision (Holm-adjusted p=.2432). Neither improvement was statistically conclusive after multiple-comparison correction. Task Persona alone showed a small observed effect, while successful-history evidence provided no additional improvement in brand consistency under the current setting. Human validation did not consistently reproduce the LLM-Judge effect directions and showed low inter-reviewer agreement. These findings provide preliminary evidence for persistent brand context and context-preserving revision while identifying priorities for stronger evidence processing and evaluation.
PLUME: Parameter-Efficient Personalization of Large Language Models via Low-Rank User Modulation in Shared Subspaces
Personalizing large language models (LLMs) is essential for delivering AI assistance that aligns with individual users' styles, intents, and preferences. While per-user fine-tuning can substantially enhance personalization quality, it introduces significant parameter and storage overhead, limiting scalability to large user populations. We propose PLUME (Personalized Low-Rank Adaptation through User Modulation and Shared Subspace), a lightweight framework that achieves efficient and expressive per-user adaptation by leveraging a shared task-specific subspace. Specifically, PLUME first learns a global task subspace from aggregated user data. Personalization is then achieved by training only a lightweight small square matrix within this subspace, enabling each user to obtain a tailored model while keeping shared components fixed. Cross-layer shared parameters and rank-1 residual terms are further introduced to significantly reduce redundancy while maintaining expressiveness. Experiments on multiple personalized text generation benchmarks demonstrate that PLUME achieves comparable or superior performance to strong baselines, while reducing per-user parameters by over 95%. These results establish shared-subspace modulation with minimal residuals as a scalable and semantically grounded approach to LLM personalization.
Aplaud: Adaptive Personalized Low-Rank Decomposition for User-Specific LLM
In this paper, we study the problem of personalized survey response prediction using fine-tuned large language models (LLMs). This task poses unique challenges: limited per-user training data, scalability of model storage, and the need to exploit shared structure across survey questions. To address these issues, we propose Aplaud (Adaptive Personalized Low-rank and User-specific Nested Decomposition), a lightweight and scalable framework for LLM personalization. Aplaud extends the LoRA paradigm by separating adaptation into a frozen, shared low-rank basis and a compact user-specific correction, augmented with a rank-one residual for finer personalization. To further reduce per-user parameter cost and mitigate overfitting, the correction matrix can be factorized into an even lower-rank form. Empirical results demonstrate that Aplaud achieves efficient, scalable personalization across users while outperforming state-of-the-art LoRA-based personalized LLM approaches in both generalization and inference efficiency.
A Prompt-Engineering Approach to Develop Scalable, Flexible, and Real-Time Hybrid Micro-Level Personalization in a General Purpose AI Teaching Assistant
Artificial intelligence (AI) teaching assistants powered by large language models (LLMs) offer scalable educational support but often provide limited personalization. This study presents a prompt-engineering-based framework for personalizing general-purpose LLM/RAG-based AI teaching assistants such as Jill Watson across academic disciplines and courses. The framework adapts responses using six learner-specific dimensions: self-assessment, abstraction preference, verbosity preference, perceptual orientation, information processing style, and level of understanding, yielding 96 distinct learner profiles. Student queries are additionally analyzed using Bloom's Taxonomy to estimate cognitive complexity at the interaction level. Learner attributes and cognitive assessments are encoded in structured prompts that condition the LLM without requiring model retraining. The framework is evaluated through experiments using NLP metrics and a human study with five participants. Results show perceived differences in response style and structure across personalization conditions, with statistical analyses identifying learner attributes associated with measurable response changes. These findings provide preliminary evidence that prompt-based personalization can support adaptive behavior in LLM-powered educational agents.
VIBE-Bench: Evaluating Personalized Large Language Models When Profiles Don't Mean Preferences
Personalized Large Language Models (PLLMs) aim to tailor responses to individual users, where a central challenge is preference reasoning: inferring query-relevant preferences from user-related history. Existing benchmarks, however, largely assume that such preference can be retrieved from semantically related history. We study an underexplored but practically important regime, profile-preference conceptual misalignment (PRCM), where observable profile cues and query-specific preferences lie in different concept spaces, making semantic retrieval inconsistent for personalization. We introduce VIBE-Bench, a benchmark with two psychology-grounded tasks, 3,504 personas and 12,239 dialogues, including a manually verified gold test set, and requires cross-concept preference reasoning beyond surface semantic overlap. Experiments with several personalization methods show that current PLLMs largely rely on shallow semantic correlations and fail to acquire robust cross-concept mappings. These findings establish PRCM as a distinct failure regime in PLLMs and position VIBE-Bench as a focused testbed for advancing preference reasoning beyond semantic matching.
Hypotheses-Guided Self Distillation for Continual Personalization
As people increasingly interact with LLM assistants in daily life, continually adapting to individual preferences has become essential for effective long-term interactions. However, user preferences are rarely stated in full, and instead emerge through heterogeneous, latent, and noisy signals, with existing methods relying on raw interaction histories or costly reward-based optimization to manage personalization. We introduce HypReflect, a reliable, scalable framework for continual personalization that infers explicit, uncertainty-aware preference hypotheses from diverse user signals, reflectively refines them as new evidence accumulates, and incorporates the resulting user model through hypotheses-guided self-distillation. Experiments across three personalization settings: online personalization, multi-session interactions, and implicit behavioral signals, show that HypReflect outperforms a range of baselines, including raw-history and incremental-update methods. We further demonstrate strong generalization to unseen users and cross-domain settings, along with stability across context budgets, reusable hypotheses, and more focused personalization. These results suggest a step towards reliable and scalable continual personalization through explicit, revisable user preference hypotheses.
Locating and Controlling Implicit Personalization in Large Language Models
Large language models (LLMs) often shift their outputs in response to implicit demographic cues even when users never state a demographic identity. Previous work has documented this behavior, but the connection between these behavioral changes and the model's internal activations remains unclear. Using matched cued and neutral conversations across five LLMs, we establish that a localized internal activation signal tracks changes in recommendations, with correlations up to r=0.87. When multiple cues appear together, their internal signals largely combine, but the changes in output do not simply add up. We further show that removing the internal signal associated with one cue can suppress its influence, often more effectively than asking the model to ignore demographics via prompting, while largely preserving general benchmark performance. However, the ability to selectively remove one dimension's influence while leaving co-present dimensions intact remains highly model- and attribute-specific. These results connect implicit personalization behavior to an internal signal that can be analyzed and causally controlled.
Weightless Fine-Tuning: Personalizing LLMs via Logit-Space Transport
Supervised fine-tuning (SFT) is a standard approach for adapting LLMs to a target distribution, but in settings such as personalization, where each author requires separate weight access, optimization, storage, and retraining, its costs become prohibitive. We propose Weightless Fine-Tuning (WFT), a training-free decoding-time method that approximates the distributional effect of SFT without weight updates. WFT computes supervised residuals on an author's training sequence and transports them to the current prompt through a cross-prefix transport operator estimated from dropout-induced cross-covariance. The operator captures how a perturbation at one context propagates to predictions at another, replacing gradient-based parameter updates with logit-space corrections. On three LaMP personalization benchmarks, WFT achieves the best average performance across datasets, matches or exceeds SFT on individual tasks, and outperforms other lightweight baselines on average. In a budget-controlled comparison, WFT approaches SFT performance using less than 7% of the effective computation. Logit-level analysis shows a cosine similarity of 0.875 between the logit shifts induced by WFT and SFT over 95% of the next-token probability mass, suggesting that WFT captures the distributional effect of supervised adaptation without modifying model weights.
Do Personalized Skills Help Coding Agents? An Empirical Study of Developer Interaction Histories
Large language model (LLM)-powered agents have rapidly evolved from code-completion tools into solvers of complex software engineering tasks. As developers collaborate with coding agents over time, their preferences emerge through repeated interactions and can be used to adapt agent behavior to better meet individual developers' needs. Capturing and reusing these preferences may reduce repeated corrections and improve developer-agent collaboration. Agent skills provide a lightweight mechanism for transferring experience without modifying model parameters. However, existing work primarily focuses on task-specific skills, and it remains unclear whether developer-specific skills distilled from interaction histories can generalize to future tasks. We propose a framework for extracting reusable developer preferences from interaction traces. It first generates personalized skills through rule-based bootstrapping and evidence-grounded refinement, and then evaluates them using a reproducible replay framework with an interactive, trajectory-conditioned LLM-based human developer simulator. We conduct an experiment on 206 real-world developer-agent sessions from 13 developers and compare personalized skills against no-skill, generic-skill, and other-user-skill baselines. Personalized skills provide small and inconsistent improvements over the no-skill baseline, whereas generic skills pooled across developers achieve the largest and most consistent gains. Further analysis suggests that personalized skills become more effective when developer preferences appear frequently, particularly when their histories contain multiple examples relevant to future tasks. These findings provide empirical insights into when developer-specific personalization is effective and demonstrate that broadly transferable procedural knowledge can be more robust than developer-specific preference signals.
Learning Preference Adaptation for Large Language Model Personalization via Verbal Reinforcement Learning
Natural language user preferences provide an interpretable interface for LLM personalization. However, universal preference summaries often contain information irrelevant to a particular downstream task. Directly supplying the full preference summary therefore wastes context capacity and introduces cross-task distraction, while manually designing task-specific preference views is difficult to scale. In this work, we study \emph{task-specific preference adaptation}: given a universal user preference summary and a downstream task, derive a task-conditioned representation that preserves sufficient decision-relevant evidence while removing redundant context. To this end, we propose \textsc{AlignXada}, a training-free meta-learning framework that induces reusable textual refinement policies for adapting universal preference summaries to task-specific ones. The refinement policy is iteratively optimized by a meta learner through verbal reinforcement learning. Across 13 tasks and three downstream models (39 task--model cells), \textsc{AlignXada} achieves an average gain of 3.82 points, improving 33 cells while retaining only 22.8% of the original profile tokens and outperforming RAG in 36 cells. An extended faithfulness analysis further shows that the refined profiles remain largely grounded in the source preferences while preserving task-relevant personalization signals, suggesting that profile-side adaptation serves as a practical complement to universal memory construction for lifelong personalized agents.
UserToolBench: A User-Profile-Hidden Benchmark for Personalized Decision Making in Tool-Use LLMs
Tool-use LLMs are increasingly asked to act on users' behalf, but existing benchmarks usually focus on profile recall, style imitation, generic tool use, or response-level personalization. We introduce UserToolBench , a benchmark for personalized decision making in tool-use LLMs. UserToolBench tests whether a model can infer latent user preferences from interaction history, recognize when clarification is needed, and produce user-aligned tool-call trajectories under incomplete information. The benchmark is built from privacy-sanitized real interaction traces and combines structured persona profiles, public API-style tool ecosystems, and long-horizon multi-turn trajectories. It includes 10 user profiles, 36 tool sets, 1,065 turns, 170 unique tools, and evaluation-focused task types covering lack-of-information, single-tool, and multi-tool settings. Experiments with strong tool-use LLMs show that current models still have difficulty with personalized delegation. Multi-tool coordination, missing-constraint inference, and long-horizon behavioral consistency remain major bottlenecks. These results suggest that personalization evaluation should move beyond asking whether outputs sound user-specific and instead ask whether LLMs make correct decisions for the users they represent.
TRACE-Memory: Public-Conditioned Retrieval and Utility-Aware Evidence Admission for Personalized Generation
Personalized generation systems retrieve user history by request--memory relevance and inject it into the model context. Yet relevant history may concern the wrong preference aspect, duplicate public information, or provide insufficient support. We argue that personal memory should be used only when it adds utility beyond a public-only response. We propose TRACE-Memory, a two-stage framework for selective personalization. Stage 1 queries for user-specific information missing from the request and public context, then retrieves a coverage-oriented candidate pool. Stage 2 admits a compact subset of source-traceable evidence units, or the empty set, according to response-level incremental utility. We progressively train the query-generation and evidence-admission policies through structured SFT initialization, reduced-space stage-wise GRPO warm-up, and nested multi-sample Joint GRPO. Across 4,500 Controlled and Natural tasks from Goodreads, Amazon Reviews, and Reddit, TRACE-Memory consistently outperforms random and lexical memory use, improves over semantic retrieval, remains competitive with frontier-LLM memory pipelines as local generator capacity increases, and conditions evidence admission on public-context sufficiency, supporting selective rather than default personalization.
Cautious Context Steering for Language Model Personalization
Personalizing language models (LMs) to individual user preferences is essential for aligning responses with diverse goals and backgrounds. Existing methods typically train a separate adapter for each user or learn a reward model whose scores depend on the user. Despite explicitly optimizing for each user, these methods must learn from limited observations and therefore suffer from data sparsity and poor generalization to unseen users and domains. In-context learning (ICL) and Context Steering (CoS) can instead provide more effective personalization by conditioning the base LM directly on user context and leveraging its pretrained capabilities without per-user training. Yet neither adapts the influence of that context across decoding steps: ICL leaves it uncontrolled, whereas CoS applies a fixed steering coefficient and requires two LM forward passes per step. We propose Cautious Context Steering (CCS), which adds a lightweight adapter to a frozen backbone LM to decide at each token whether and how strongly user context should affect generation. The adapter learns this behavior from an oracle context-conditioned LM and preserves the base LM when the context is not helpful. A single CCS adapter trained on only one dataset improves generation quality both in-domain and across four out-of-distribution personalization benchmarks, demonstrating robust generalization to new users and domains. CCS also avoids per-user fine-tuning and the additional context-conditioned forward pass required by CoS, substantially reducing inference cost.
LUNAR: Benchmarking Personalized Large Language Models on UNiversal User BehAvioR Logs
Existing personalized LLM benchmarks primarily rely on textual personas or isolated behavioral signals, providing limited evaluation of cross-domain behavioral personalization, where responses must be grounded in heterogeneous daily-life activities. To address this gap, we introduce LUNAR, the first benchmark for evaluating how LLMs personalize responses from longitudinal app interaction histories across universal daily-life domains, including clothing, food, housing, and mobility. To support scalable benchmark construction while mitigating data sparsity and privacy concerns, LUNAR uses a multi-stage coarse-to-fine synthesis pipeline grounded in real-world behavioral patterns. Fidelity analyses show closer alignment with real behavioral distributions than other synthetic benchmarks. Experiments on 19 mainstream LLMs show that access to behavioral logs is necessary but not sufficient for deep personalization: neither more context nor larger models guarantees better performance; effective personalization depends on selecting and integrating relevant evidence across domains. Direct retrieval of fine-grained behavioral records consistently outperforms compressed memory, while stronger personalization can come at the cost of privacy protection. These findings identify evidence selection, cross-domain integration, and privacy control as key challenges for personalized LLMs.
The Personalization Mirage: How LLMs Fabricate User Profiles, and Why Self-Monitoring Misleads
Personalized LLMs with persistent memory are increasingly deployed, yet the faithfulness of their user models remains unexamined. We study over-inference (OI): the phenomenon where LLMs fabricate user attributes beyond what evidence supports. We introduce MirageBench, comprising 150 personas balanced across stereotypical, counter-stereotypical, and neutral profiles, 6 personalization tasks spanning an ``imagination gradient'', a four-way faithfulness taxonomy operationalized by an independent judge (validated against a blind human annotator on 400 claims: Cohen's kappa = 0.863 four-class, kappa = 0.900 binary), and a leaderboard of 12 models across 7 families on 143616 judged claims. We find that over-inference is pervasive: every one of the 12 models over-infers 35%--49% of its claims (cross-model mean 41.6%; claim-weighted 41.8%), with no model in this evaluation escaping it. Most strikingly, we surface a Self-Monitoring Inversion: at the model-selection level, models' self-assessed OI is negatively rank-correlated with their judge-measured OI (rho = -0.60, p = 0.044; exploratory, wide bootstrap CI [-0.90, +0.06], n = 12). The models that report the least over-inference tend to be flagged as fabricating the most, so self-reported confidence is a misleading signal for comparing models, even though within a single model self-audit still ranks that model's own claims moderately well (AUROC 0.58--0.83). We further show that OI is task-dependent (27%--59%) and that, in a multi-turn pilot, inferred attributes accumulate approximately linearly with little revision. MirageBench positions external verification, rather than model self-report, as a more reliable foundation for trustworthy personalization.
From Profiling to Synthesis: Benchmarking Implicit Behavioral Alignment in Personalized LLM Agents
Large Language Models have enabled increasingly capable autonomous agents, yet personalization remains critical for making such agents practically useful. Recent benchmarks have begun evaluating personalization in agents, but they largely rely on static preference snapshots, fixed interaction logs, or question answering over predefined user profiles. Such designs fail to capture the complexity of evolving user preferences and neglect preference-conditioned task execution-a discrepancy we term as the knowledge-to-action gap. To address this challenge, we introduce IBA-Bench, a benchmark for implicit behavioral alignment constructed from longitudinal interaction histories that contain noise, implicit cues, and temporal inconsistencies. Unlike prior work, IBA-Bench evaluates whether an agent can execute tasks while satisfying implicit user constraints inferred from historical interactions. We further propose IBA-Agent, an agent framework that reconciles conflicting priorities through broad retrieval and trajectory-level alignment. Experiment results on IBA-Bench show that effective personalization remains a significant challenge for state-of-the-art LLM agents, and the proposed IBA-Agent substantially improves behavioral alignment in complex scenarios across nine application domains.
PGMem: Tightly Coupled Persona-Memory Graph for Lifelong Personalized Agents
Long-term personalized dialogue agents must track user preferences as their personas evolve. Existing memory systems organize past events well, but store personas as flat profiles detached from the events that justify them. This loose coupling leads to the memory-persona validity gap and the persona-aware retrieval gap. We propose PGMem, a heterogeneous persona-memory graph that connects event and persona nodes through typed provenance and evidence edges, keeping each persona signal traceable to the events that support or revise it. At retrieval time, PGMem expands from query-relevant seeds and ranks signals by evidential validity. Across three benchmarks with small language model backbones, PGMem consistently outperforms summary-based, persona-aware, graph-structured, and agentic memory baselines, and improves performance as the context grows. The source code of PGMem is available at https://github.com/wonjunchoi23/pgmem/
Learning to Adapt Cross-Domain Preferences via Meta-LoRA for LLM Personalization
Cross-domain zero- or few-shot personalization aims to generate user-preferred responses in unseen conversational domains from only a handful of target-domain interactions. Existing adaptation methods struggle to calibrate update magnitude under sparse evidence and thus overfit, whereas history-transfer methods often entangle user preferences with source-domain artifacts, yielding unreliable personalization priors and negative transfer. To calibrate adaptation to evidence quality, we propose PAC-Bayes-regularized Meta-LoRA, which uses a meta-learned LoRA initialization as both the adaptation start and prior center, while adjusting update strength according to support-set size and predictive uncertainty. This limits overfitting under sparse or ambiguous evidence while permitting stronger personalization as evidence grows. Controlled adaptation alone does not determine which preferences should transfer across domains or how they should be expressed. We therefore functionally decompose personalization priors into user and domain components, using a human-readable prompt for stable preferences and topology-preserving soft tokens for domain-specific hidden-space conditioning. Experiments across multiple benchmarks and personalization tasks show consistent gains over strong baselines. On HiCUPID, our method reduces cross-domain win-rate degradation by 47.9% relative to the best competing baseline and improves win rate by 110.2% under unseen-user cold start.
Personalizing Large Language Model Agents with Small Policy Models
Large language model (LLM) agents can retrieve memory, call tools, ask clarifying questions, and vary response style, yet adapting these execution decisions to an individual user remains difficult. Fine-tuning a separate LLM is costly or impossible for proprietary systems, while prompts and memory primarily expose user information to the agent rather than adapt its execution decisions from feedback. We formulate personalization of a frozen agent as online learning of a per-user execution policy from scalar feedback observed only for the executed action. We propose FABLE (Factorized Adaptive Bandit Layer for Execution), a lightweight policy layer outside a potentially black-box host agent. FABLE factorizes memory, information-acquisition, and response decisions so feedback updates related choices; filters actions through an externally specified feasible set before exploration; and learns user-specific residual preferences relative to a fixed default-and-cost score via Bayesian contextual Thompson sampling. Under a linear residual-reward model, a calibrated variant inherits an expected-regret bound against the best feasible action. We also characterize preferences unidentifiable under persistent feasibility constraints and provide anytime-valid false-promotion control. Across personalized-reasoning, controlled-feedback, and executable tool-use evaluations, FABLE improves several preference-sensitive behaviors relative to rule-only control while remaining competitive on end-to-end task performance.
Know It, Act on It: Investigating Memory Utilization in LLM Personalization
As large language model (LLM) agents evolve into personalized companions, memory has emerged as a core capability. However, LLMs face a knowledge utilization problem: they may fail to act on relevant user preferences even when they are fully present in context. When an agent fails to tailor its response in a context where previously shared user preferences should matter, it is unclear whether the model failed to remember that information or remembered it but failed to use it. To isolate this breakdown, we introduce a decoupled evaluation paradigm that administers paired Know and Act tests to the same user preference. We conduct large-scale experiments across 16 systems and five memory architectures, evaluating 1,000 preferences embedded at three levels of expression strength. Our results show a large gap between Know and Act outcomes: agents often pass the recall test for a user preference but fail to reflect that same preference in the paired behavioral scenario. While memory architectures reduce this gap, utilization remains especially weak for health and therapy-related preferences, where failures to act carry the greatest real-world stakes.
Learning Dynamic User Personas from Implicit Interaction Streams via Iterative Refinement
Personalizing large language models (LLMs) to individual users is essential for improving user experience, yet existing approaches typically rely on explicit preference supervision such as pairwise comparisons or demographic attributes, limiting their applicability in natural interaction settings. We propose IRIS, a framework that learns dynamic user personas directly from implicit interaction streams by extracting behavioral signals from everyday conversations and iteratively refining persona representations through a prediction-driven closed loop without requiring explicit feedback. We introduce an evaluation protocol based on behavior prediction, persona stability, and decision prediction. A proof-of-concept study on a synthetic interaction stream derived from public-domain autobiographical text shows that IRIS produces stable personas and distinguishes individual users while revealing limitations of memory-only approaches on recall-oriented metrics. We then validate IRIS on anonymized real-world Reddit r/AmItheAsshole (AITA) data, with personas built solely from each author's historical interactions. Across 100 authors, IRIS achieves the highest decision prediction accuracy among all evaluated methods (61.0%), outperforming static personas, memory-only retrieval, and no-personalization baselines. These results suggest that implicit behavioral modeling provides a scalable alternative to explicit preference learning for personalized LLMs and offers a practical foundation for adaptive conversational systems and embodied agents that require continuously evolving models of their users.
Mi-Memory: A Lifecycle Memory Framework for Personal AI
Personal AI is moving beyond chat-only interaction toward continuous services that span phones, cars, homes, wearables, cameras, and tools. In this setting, memory cannot remain a cache of prior conversations. It should serve as a continuity and governance substrate: preserving durable user state, grounding answers in multimodal and device evidence, supporting correction and forgetting, bounding policy evolution, and remaining deployable under latency, cost, privacy, and edge-cloud constraints. This technical report presents Mi-Memory, a lifecycle memory framework for Personal AI organized around four roles: Structure, Expansion, Evolution, and Deployment. A shared audit contract links these roles through four recurring artifact families: typed evidence payloads preserve source identity and provenance, diagnostic traces localize evidence loss across the serving pipeline, strategy artifacts make memory-policy changes explicit, and gate/rollback records bound accepted evolution. MiMemory instantiates the roles through MemStack, MemSense/MemFuse, DACCI/EMEND, and LiteMem. In controlled-reference Structure evaluations, MemStack reaches 93.59%, 57.24%, and 87.47% on LoCoMo, PersonaMem-V2, and LongMemEval, respectively; other tracks report module-level, preliminary/internal, transfer-feasibility, or design-only evidence with explicit boundaries. MiMemory is a step toward auditable, evidence-gated, and deployment-aware memory systems for Personal AI. Project homepage: https://darwin-agent.github.io/Mi-Memory/ .